Thursday, December 31, 2009
New Years Eve Activities
Wednesday, December 30, 2009
New Year's Eve Traditions
With the Christmas festivities wrapping up, we are now looking forward to our New Year's Eve tradition...fireworks at the beach! Every year we bring a few boxes of fireworks down to Castle beach near our house and do sparklers and a few more exciting (read: dangerous) types of firecrackers in the sand. The kids dance and play around the fire pit and we ring in the new year with a bang and lots of laughs. What are your New Year's Eve activity or food traditions? Here's to you in 2010, Happy New Year!
Tuesday, December 29, 2009
Christmas Clearance
There is buzz going around on the Internet that Target's Clearance is the best around. Expected markdown dates are as follows:
Dec 26 - Jan 1= 50%
Jan 2 - Jan 6= 75%
Jan 7 = 90%
In January Old Navy also does a sale of 50% off all clearance items. You can really get some great, cheap clothes for your children during this mark down event also.
Remember, only buy something if you need it and will use it for a future gift. Don't just go out and buy something simply because it is a good deal! Have a specific person or place in mind when buying clearance items.
Enjoy and happy shopping!
Monday, December 28, 2009
Best Childrens Books of 2009
Wednesday, December 23, 2009
Believe
But what do you do when you are asked that dreaded question, is Santa real? A few years ago our daughter, then 7, was clearly struggling with the idea that Santa really didn't make much sense, and asked us point blank what was up. We hemmed and hawed and tried to think of something to say, and she said 'Really, tell me the truth!' So we dropped the bomb and for a split second there was disappointment, followed by a sense of relief on her end.
Experts recommend asking curious kids who appear ready for the truth, "Is there something you saw or heard that makes you think Santa isn't real?" and "What do you think?" to try and encourage a balance that to lets children be open to possibility but also to question. Another article that addresses this issue can be found in the London Free Press.
The magic of Christmas is so much more than believing in Santa - but what fun it is when kids still have that innocent excitement on Christmas morning!! Even though some of are long past the days of truly believing, we're looking forward to Friday and all the enjoyment of the season....
Tuesday, December 22, 2009
The Grinch Who Stole Christmas
The Grinch Who Stole Christmas is one of my very favorite Christmas movies. Unfortunately I have read two articles this past week in which the premise of this movie actually happens! Of course not to the extent of stealing a whole town's Christmas gifts, Christmas trees, and food, but on a smaller scale where robbers actually stole gifts intended for needy children.
I am saddened that even in the Christmas season, people are so heartless to go and steal presents from children who will probably not get a single gift this Christmas. In our culture, it seems we place a high priority on gifts. Do children really need all those toys? Will they ever play with all the gifts they were given? What if we scaled back a little, bought only a few presents for our kids, and placed more importance on giving to others and service this season?
Kids deserve the joy of opening a few presents on Christmas and they should feel the generosity of others. Maybe I'll scale back this year and see if they even notice!
Saturday, December 19, 2009
Easy Holiday Toffee
The ingredients are:
4 oz saltine crackers (one sleeve)
1 cup butter (oh ya!)
1/2 cup granulated sugar
1/2 cup brown sugar
dash of vanilla
2 cups semi sweet chocolate chips or squares from a hershey's bar
crushed candy cane or chopped nuts (optional)
Then all you do is:
Preheat oven to 400 deg F. Line the cookie sheet with the crackers in a single layer. In a saucepan, bring the sugars and butter to a boil and boil for 3 minutes. Remove from heat and add about 1 teaspoon of vanilla. Immediately pour over the saltines and spread to cover crackers completely. Bake at 400 deg F for 4-5 minutes. Remove from oven and sprinkle chocolate chips on top and spread as they melt. Top with crushed candy cane or nuts (optional). Cool completely. Break into pieces and enjoy!
Friday, December 18, 2009
Carrots for Santa?
I'm all for healthy living, and yes, maybe Santa could stand to lose a few pounds, but what happens if you take away the reindeer, sleigh, and christmas cookies? A tanned, toned Santa in a Speedo drinking protein shakes wearing a flu mask? Wait, haven't I seen that skating around Venice Beach already? I'll take the jolly guy in the red suit for a month every year over that...the next thing you know they'll be blaming Santa and his reindeer emissions for global warming. Sheesh, give the guy a break!
Thursday, December 17, 2009
Children's H1N1 Vaccine recall
Wednesday, December 16, 2009
Bananagrams
Tuesday, December 15, 2009
It's a BOOK fair, not a TOY fair!
It turns out the book fair really isn’t about BOOKS. It’s all about the stuffed animals and toys they sell *with* the books, like the ones that come with fancy pens with furry heads on them, or that have a pen with dog prints on it since it happens to be with a book about a dog. He said that those were the items the kids wanted, NOT the books. It is sad that in an effort to promote literacy and enjoyment in reading, they promote all the toys just to lure the kids into spending a lot of their parent’s money on toys and do-dads. He said he thinks the ladies running the whole deal probably thought he was the meanest Dad there since he refused to buy the teddy bears.
So, I think next year we’ll skip the book fair…and hit the public library instead!
Monday, December 14, 2009
The Twinkie--A lesson in delayed gratification
Sorry Ms. B. I would much rather send my boy to school with a sugary, frosting filled dessert, but know that at such a young age he was able to use a little self control (which is really hard when you're a 7 year old boy!) and delay the gratification of eating such a fine dessert. We live in a society that demands immediate gratification. It is very hard for our kids to learn to wait for the good things.
Friday, December 11, 2009
Top 100 High Schools
Thursday, December 10, 2009
The Muslin Swaddling Blanket--A Product Review
On a recent trip to Target, I made a wonderful discovery, and I want to share it with every mother of an infant I know! I found a pack of these swaddling blankets made from cotton muslin fabric. I bought the pack and gave three to a new mom I know as a baby gift and kept one for my 6 month old. This muslin swaddling blanket is made by aden + anais, you can see their website here. I couldn’t be happier with this blanket. The fabric is soft, has a little give to it which makes it great for swaddling (and staying put!), and is big enough to wrap up even a 6 month old. It is so lightweight and breathable, it is perfect for summer or warmer climates. It also makes a great nursing cover for this same reason--it allows baby to breath without getting too warm. The only downside I would say would be cost--at Target I paid 29.99 for a pack of 4. But, absolutely worth every penny in my opinion. Check out their website--if you weren’t a convert to swaddling, you will be after reading what they have to say about it!
Wednesday, December 9, 2009
Potty Training Tips
My personal theory to potty training is to start talking about it, get out the little kids toilet so they can explore and play with it a little, and getting them used to the idea from about 18 months. Let them roam outside without a diaper so they can learn to correlate the feeling of peeing with the words that you will use to identify it. Yes, it can be messy, and yes I've even found a few logs with the naked roaming method! Then around 2, get them excited about it, try underwear, and see how things go for a few hours at a time when you're home. My method is a long drawn out process but I find that if you catch them when they are at the age where clapping and praise are driving forces for their actions, instead of waiting until they figure out that they can be defiant and do the opposite of what you want, its a better match. This OregonLive article has some more tips.....anyone want to share successful potty training methods? I have a feeling my old tricks won't work with my last child.....I need some pointers this time around!
Tuesday, December 8, 2009
Favorite Holiday Books for Children
Monday, December 7, 2009
Get out your wallet....
Here's some good news for you, some experts actually advise against setting up a dedicated college fund, and have some pretty good reasons why its more important to save for your own retirement than for your kid's future tuition. Check it out at MSN Money Central. Now back to that Christmas shopping.....
Friday, December 4, 2009
Ideas for Reducing Screen Time for Kids
2. Set the example as the adults--Kid’s won’t take the rules seriously if they see us sitting in front of the tube for hours on end instead of doing something active.
3. Keep TV’s and computers OUT of children’s rooms. Both should really be family items and whatever is viewed on them should be available and reasonably appropriate for most members of the family. 4. No TV during meal time--make meal time about sharing a meal and socializing with each other and discussing the events of the day. This will take the focus off of food and kids will stop eating when they are full rather than eating mindlessly in front of the TV which can lead to obesity.
5. Don’t use TV as a reward--this puts too much emphasis on TV and it will become even that much more important to children.
6. Plan out your shows--let the kids pick a few programs they will want to watch during the week. Then either record them or set aside that time its on for your kids to watch. This way there is more purpose to the TV watching and they can look forward to their TV time and their show. (Honestly, how did we survive before Tivo and DVRs?!)
What has worked in your family to control screen time with your kids? How do you limit it without making it a huge battle? I’d love to hear what works for others, since I can tell as my kids get older, the challenge is different.
Wednesday, December 2, 2009
Choosing the Right School for Your Child
* Does your child require special attention due to learning or physical disabilities?
* How close do you need to be to the school? If you live far from the school, is there after school care to watch your child before you get off work?
*Do the facilities meet your expectations? Are they clean, safe, and are there ample supplies/resources for the children?
*What kind of extra-curricular activities are offered (sports, music, art, theater, etc.)?
*How much homework is required of older students? At what age is homework sent home?
*What does the school expect in terms of parent involvement? Does it accommodate to your schedule and ability to be involved at school?
*What is the school’s discipline policy?
*What are the teacher to student ratios? Are teachers appropriately educated, certified and credentialed?
*What does it cost?
Kids spend a large portion of their day at school, and school greatly affects their development. It is where they learn social skills, academics, and how to follow directions--life skills that need to be taught in a way that will work for you and your child. I know for us finding the right preschool was very hard to do. One of the best ways I have found good schools have been by word of mouth. Make a list of questions that are important to you and don’t be afraid to ask them. Good luck finding the right fit for your child---happy learning!
Go to http://www.greatschools.net/ for more information...
Tuesday, December 1, 2009
Scentsy - Great Gift Idea!
About a year ago I discovered what many already knew about--Scentsy’s wickless candles. Seriously, what an ingenious idea! I love candles and the delicious smells they give off, but with little ones around, it made me nervous to have candles burning. Plus, I had read somewhere that the soot and smoke from the candles was harmful. With Scentsy “candles”, you place a wax bar in a small dish over a warmer that is heated by a 25 watt light bulb. The heat from this low watt bulb is just enough to melt the wax and it gives off these beautiful aromas. BUT, the best part is, its not hot enough to burn the skin, so if one of the kids knocks it over, they won’t be harmed.
These are great just about anywhere -- dorm rooms, bathrooms, kitchens, daycares, offices, classrooms, etc. And if that’s not enough, they even have car candles, sprays and plug-ins. I have loved having a warmer and I’m loving experimenting with different bars. Check them out, they make GREAT holiday gifts, or just treat yourself to one!
www.scentsy.com/jenh
The PERFECT Kid’s Cup -- A product review
I was at Costco and found these PERFECT cups! They came in a four pack that cost about $16. I am in LOVE with these cups! They are the perfect blend of “spill-proof sippy cup” and “cool sports bottle.” They are made by Contigo, who also makes a line of spill proof cups for adults. They claim this is the perfect cup for your children “because they may outgrow their sippy cups, but they never outgrow spilling.”
Their cups for kids are called AUTOSEAL Kids. They are BPA free, they look great, and are incredibly easy to use, even for my small 3 year old who has tiny hands. There is a small opening where the liquid comes out. To activate the flow of liquid, you press a big “button” on the cup. The button is easy for little hands to press down and the drink comes right out. The best part is, they are EASY to wash! No valves or tiny parts. Just unscrew the lid, and put both the cup and lid on the top rack of your dishwasher and you’re set. Contigo claims that these cups are 100% Spill-proof and 100% leak-proof. So far, after 2 months of hard, heavy use by four of my kids, I can say this is true.
I am totally confident sending these cups in the kids’ backpacks or lunches and I know they are happy with a *cool* looking cup of water on their desk. Sure beats a Dora sippy cup!
I just had to share my great find with other moms. Check out their website at
http://www.gocontigo.com/ . You can even watch a video of the cups in action!
Monday, November 30, 2009
Tis the Season - Reducing Holiday Stress
We were able to spend a few relaxing days on Maui over the Thanksgiving holiday and the take home message I got was that the kids were just as happy with a pool and some quality family time than a big turkey dinner with the accompanying stresses of dressing up, food preparation, etc. Of course we would love to live closer to family and enjoy grandparents (and mom's home cooking!!) and cousin time, but we also recognized that we can help kids reduce the stress of the holidays by taking a few steps back and simplifying things for them.
A few tips for managing the holidays with little ones are:
- Stick to your routines as much as possible. Keeping bedtimes and naptimes routine will help avoid over-exhausted kids.
- Keep nutritious foods around, and encourage healthy habits including routine excersize
- Plan ahead to avoid last minute anxiety.
- Talk to your kids about tradition and spirituality and the importance of those things in your holiday celebrations.
- Plan a 'giving' activity like serving food at a shelter, preparing stockings for less fortunate kids, or taking cookies to elderly neighbors.
Friday, November 27, 2009
Too much TV??
The general guidelines for screen time (which includes television, video games, and computers) are that kids 2 and older should be limited to two hours a day (unless doing homework) and children under 2 should NEVER use screen media. The article claims that children who exceed these guidelines are more likely to:
*be overweight
*smoke
*have high blood pressure
*bully other children
*have sleeping problems
*develop ADD
*lag behind in language and social skills
*drink alcohol
TV time is inactive time. By allowing children so much inactive time in front of a screen we are putting them at higher risks for bad health habits they will carry with them as they age and which will seriously affect their physical, emotional, and social health.
Sorry Moms, I don’t mean this to be a guilt-trigger! I can tell I use the TV more at different times. This summer I had a brand new baby and five kids in my house under the age of 7. You can BET we watched some good movies and a little PBS, and frankly, I didn’t feel guilty about it. Now that they are in school, they watch *maybe* two hours a week, because our time is more limited. I think we need to use common sense and look for balance and moderation in individual circumstances.
As a parent you have to find what works for your family, but this article was a good reminder and wake up call for me to realize how affected children truly are by screen time and how it can have long lasting health implications.
Maybe my son was right after all…too much TV will turn his brain to mush.
Other interesting links:
Center for Screen Time Awareness:
http://www.tvturnoff.org/
American Academy of Pediatrics Media Violence policy:
http://aappolicy.aappublications.org/cgi/content/abstract/pediatrics;124/5/1495
Thursday, November 26, 2009
Happy Thanksgiving!!
Thanksgiving is one of my favorite holidays. I love it because it has all the joys of family, comfort foods, and love and gratitude like Christmas, but without all the stress of the presents!When we were growing up, we lived near cousins, aunts and uncles and one set of grandparents. I have such wonderful memories of our Thanksgivings together at our home. I can almost smell the turkey, Granny’s brussel sprouts, the rolls, and yams. We felt important, drinking Martinelli’s out of glass goblets and eating off beautiful plates and using mom’s real silverware. But most of all we felt loved, included, and we were well fed!Things are different now--my family is all spread across the country and we can’t all be together for Thanksgiving. But it’s ok, we have good memories of the past and so many things to be grateful for in the present.When we were younger we would sit and write things we were thankful for after our feast.
Now that I’m a mom, my list is quite different. But here are a few things I think I will add to my list this year:
I am thankful for:
* five little faces that greet me every morning (even if they aren’t smiling…)
* an amazing sense of hearing and listening. I can listen to two or even three totally different conversations coming at me at the same time.
* a gigantic dog that cleans those hard to reach places under the kitchen table.
* a husband that is a master at changing diapers and can take four kids on an outing every Sunday afternoon so I can rest.
* a van that functions and that is my home away from home.
* the toddler toilet in said van that has saved me thousands of trips into public restrooms with those five little faces.
* another year to enjoy Thanksgiving and take in all that it offers us.
Enjoy your day!
Wednesday, November 25, 2009
Tweens and Twilight
Tuesday, November 24, 2009
Science Fun with Glow Sticks
What you need:
Glow sticks
Cups for water
Hot water
Cold water
The Experiment:
Bend and snap the glow stick and shake it so that it starts to glow. Fill one cup with hot water and one cup with cold water. Put the glow stick in the hot water for a few minutes and take a close look at it. What happens? Now take the glow stick out of the hot water and place it into the cold water, allow it to cool down for a few minutes and take notice what happens.
How it works:
The reaction between the different compounds in a light stick causes a major release of energy. Atoms in the material are excited, causing electrons to rise to a higher energy level before returning to their normal levels. As the electrons return to their normal levels, they release energy as light, a process called chemiluminescence. A typical commercial glow stick contains a hydrogen peroxide solution, a phenyl oxalate ester, and a fluorescent dye - when you snap the glow stick, the chemicals are allowed to mix, react with each other and the atoms start emitting light. Immersing the stick in different temperatures changes the rate of the reaction, or the rate at which the atoms excite. Heating the light stick will speed up the reaction, causing it to glow brighter, while cooling it down slows the reaction. We've had a few glow sticks in the freezer for that very reason, just trying to make it last!
To make your very own ultra-cool glow stick solution, check this out at PBS.org! Happy glowing....
Thanksgiving is Just Around the Corner!
I'll start by decorating the house in a little Christmas decor and lighting Cinnamon and Christmas Tree scented candles or use my favorite Scentsy. I probably shouldn't admit this, but I'm still learning to cook, so food and baking items may not be plentiful, but I can always go buy a yummy pie somewhere. Music is also a great way to get into the holiday spirit. This year I'll add to my Christmas music collection by downloading seven classic Christmas songs for FREE from Amazon.com! Click here for your FREE Christmas tunes!
What are your family traditions? How do you get in the holiday spirit and make it a special time for your family? We love hearing all of your comments!
Happy Holidays~
Monday, November 23, 2009
Where A Kid Can Be A …. Gambler?
With my husband home, I left the rest of the mob with him while just my son and I headed off to Chuck E.’s. I was excited to spend some one-on-one time with him and enjoy two hours of fun together. We arrived, greeted the birthday boy (who frankly couldn’t have cared less who was there, he was just basking in the over stimulation like every other kid). The mom of the birthday boy gave us a small, plastic cup filled with little shiny gold tokens, and after wolfing down an overpriced piece of greasy cheese pizza, we were off to the games!
For those of you who’ve never been to Chuck E. Cheese’s, this is how it works--you buy tokens (50 of them for $10--don't worry, they accept credit cards), stick your token into a slot and play a little game of pure chance for about 2 seconds. Then the machine spits out a few tickets, and when you are done, you go redeem the tickets for cheap ‘toys’ at the counter that is manned by goth looking teenagers with black fingernails and eye makeup and creative body piercings.
My son was in heaven, running from game to game, handing me the tickets that he collected to hold for safe keeping. I followed him around, mostly happy watching him enjoy his “big day.” As he was riding a little car that went up and down, I stood there watching ALL these children (and adults actually…) milling about this crowded, dim, smelly building. I watched them dash from game to game, plastic cups in hand filled with clanking tokens. I saw eyes a-lit with high hopes that the next time they shoved their token into the slot that big, neon flashing light would somehow, someway, actually stop on the word JACKPOT and a long, endless stream of tickets would come flowing from the machine. In that moment, I realized where I was. I was in a mini casino. A casino for kids. The home of future gamblers. A place where humans dump all their hard earned cash and wind up with greasy food, sugary drinks, and a few moments of thrill, only to have hopes dashed as their plastic toy that cost 160 tickets breaks before they even get into the parking lot. I realized that Chuck E. Cheese’s is nothing more than a casino for children.
“Where a kid can be a kid!” didn’t totally disappoint, however. My son and I had fun times using our tokens for things like air hockey, skeeball, and riding the little toddler rides. As we walked out into the beautiful sunshine, plastic bracelets and rubber frogs in hand, my son said, “This is the BEST day of my LIFE!” Not a bad outcome after two hours of … gambling.
Friday, November 20, 2009
Quick Guide to Cold and Flu Season
1. Don’t panic over a fever. Our body’s temperature rises to fight off infection, and fever itself is not necessarily bad. Carefully monitor your child’s fever. Only treat the fever to the point of increasing comfort for your child. Give Tylenol or Motrin (per doctor’s orders or on the medication labels), let your child soak in a lukewarm bath, and dress them in light clothing. Call your doctor immediately if your child has a high fever (103 or higher), is listless, or cannot be roused from sleep.
2. Drink plenty of fluids. Let children drink whatever fluids appeal to them. Water is best, but if they will drink watered down juice or milk that helps too. It is a myth that drinking milk will increase congestion. If it’s what your child will drink, it should be encouraged. Dehydration is one of the most common complications from flu in children, so encouraging fluids of any kind (popsicles, juices, milk, water, etc.) can help keep your child from getting worse.
3. Encourage rest. Your child will dictate how much activity they can tolerate when sick. Let them rest when they want to rest. If your child is having trouble sleeping, using a cool-mist humidifier in their room can help. Also, a warm bath before bed can give some comforting relief to the body aches.
4. Nutrition. Kids usually don’t have big appetites when they are sick, but try to encourage light, easy-to-digest foods such as broths and soups.
5. Wash hands often and throw used tissues away immediately after use. Keep your children home from school if they are sick. Children can’t learn and be effective when they don’t feel well.
Remember that as your child’s body is fighting off illness, they are also building antibodies to an illness that may come their way again. It is inconvenient and uncomfortable for the week or so that the cold or flu lingers, but by keeping your child comfortable, rested, and well hydrated, the illness will pass and they will be back on track in no time!
**This is not intended as medical advice. They are merely suggestions for home care for common colds and flu. Always contact your child’s physician when you have questions or concerns about their health.**
Thursday, November 19, 2009
The Gift that Keeps on Giving
Google has once again given us, the Internet user, a great and free gift...SafeSearch. SafeSearch is a program that filters inappropriate material on the Internet so your children don't come across explicit material as they are surfing the web. Google does reiterate that no filtering system is 100% accurate, but SafeSearch should eliminate most inappropriate material.
Google has also incorporated four colored balls into the top right corner of the web page so that parents and/or teachers can tell if the filter is on from across the room.
According to the Google website, this is how you enable SafeSearch on your computer:
1. Visit the Google Preferences page.
2. In the SafeSearch Filtering section, choose the SafeSearch level you'd like to use:
Moderate filtering: This option excludes most explicit images from Google Images results but doesn't filter ordinary web search results. This is your default SafeSearch setting; you'll receive moderate filtering unless you change it.
Strict filtering: This applies SafeSearch filtering to both image and web search results.
No filtering: This option turns SafeSearch filtering off completely.
3. Click Save Preferences when you're done setting your preferences.
NOTE: You must click on Lock SafeSearch for the filtering to take effect.
The Official Google Blog
When you lock SafeSearch, two things will change. First, you'll need to enter your password to change the setting. Second, the Google search results page will be visibly different to indicate that SafeSearch is locked:
You can also adjust your settings on a per page basis by using the Advanced Search or Advanced Image Search pages.
Enjoy and happy surfing!
Wednesday, November 18, 2009
Money Matters for Kids
I’m proud of his desire to save and earn, and even his ability to “let go” of it now and then and go shopping and throw a few dollars at a new Pokemon card. But, this obsession he has also led to many frustrations, disappointments and a child who is bummed because he is “poor.” It has led me to seek out advice from experts on helping our children handle money, and here is what I have learned from my experience, at least with our 7 year old.
1. Teach children at an early age what things cost. The grocery store is a great place to point out price tags on shelves. The sooner children can associate a number with being the price for something, the sooner they will understand the value of their money.
2. Teach them to save up for something specific. Let them choose something reasonable (like one dollar store item) and set a date for when that shopping trip will be. Before that day arrives, let your child earn coins by doing jobs outside of their normal routine. Of course this forces you to suffer through the aisles of the dollar store as your child deliberates over which piece of junk to come home with, but the thrill they get from buying something of their very own is worth it.
3. Be realistic with money amounts, especially with young children. Giving them coins and occasionally a one dollar bills is sufficient to satisfy their desire for money and teach them key concepts of counting and saving. Our tooth fairy usually gives 50-75 cents, although once in a hotel room all I had was a dollar bill and a credit card--I opted to give the dollar bill. So, our tooth fairy had to up her rates for lost teeth after that. But a handful of coins is a bigger deal to most kids than a one dollar bill anyway.
4. Teach them to keep it in a safe place. As your child realized the value of the coins or bills he or she has, they will hopefully learn the importance of keeping it in a safe place. I have five children under the age of 8, so you can imagine if there is a coin on the floor somewhere, *everyone* is going to claim it. My kids have had to learn quickly that if you treasure something (like you money!) keep it in a wallet or purse or even a zip lock baggie and keep it in a safe spot.
5. Teach your kids about bank accounts and credit cards and all that other adult stuff that they hear about but don’t really experience first hand. My kids think the bank is a money tree and I go reap my fruit whenever I‘m hungry for it. They need to learn where the money is coming from, why we work so hard for it, and where it all gets distributed. Teach them about credit cards and that everything has a price and if you don’t have the money for it, you shouldn’t buy it, even though anything seems possible with the swipe of the plastic card.
Let your kids enjoy the process of money. Learning some of these key points are so elementary but they will lay a foundation for smart and responsible money choices as they get older.
Websites with tips on teaching children about money:
http://www.moneyinstructor.com/parents.asp
http://life.familyeducation.com/money-and-kids/personal-finance/34481.html
http://www.pbs.org/wnet/moneyshow/makeover/article6.html
Monday, November 16, 2009
Teaching Children to be Thankful
According to www.dictionary.com, the word thankful has two meanings.
1. Aware and appreciative of a benefit; grateful.
2. Expressive of gratitude: a thankful smile.
Are your kids thankful? In this holiday season of giving thanks, why not sit down with your children and have each person write down five things that they are thankful for? This is an activity that the whole family can do together. Remember, the more simple you can make it the better. You can even create a "Thankful Binder" and update the binder from year to year with the present year gratitude's. Younger children will enjoy coloring and creating their own thankful pages. Each year will bring a new awareness of things to be happy about as you sit with your family and enjoy reading the pages of gratitude.
This is a fun family tradition that doesn't cost a lot of money, but will leave a lasting impression on you and your children.
Sunday, November 15, 2009
American Education Week
The dedicated teachers who make significant impacts on the lives of our youth, who shape interests and future career choices, who encourage our children to reach their true potentials, are doing one of the hardest jobs in America these days. Crime, disrespect, lack of support, and low salaries in the public school system are just a few of the reasons that it is hard to recruit the best and brightest to the profession of teaching. Despite these challenges, we are lucky that there are people like Mrs. Ono, Mrs. Davis, and countless others who are giving 110% to their students every day in classrooms across America to give our kids what they deserve – a solid education that will allow them to grow, prosper, and achieve in the 21st century.
The NEA website has a lot of valuable information, including user rated lesson plans for math, geography, history, English and much more, as well as ideas for classroom management. This is a great resource for parents and teachers alike.
Who was your favorite public school teacher growing up, and why? How can we as parents help public school teachers to succeed?
Friday, November 13, 2009
Okay kids, time for your WORKOUT!
When most of us adults think of a “workout” we think of the gym, or a long 5 mile run, or even weight lifting. But for kids, a workout does not need to be structured or formal--in fact the best way to describe a childhood “workout” is just being ACTIVE and moving their bodies.
Let’s face it, our society doesn’t make it easy to have fit kids. Fast food surrounds us, soda is readily available everywhere, our schools don’t offer much time in the way of Physical Education, and when they are in school, they are sitting at desks much of the day.
There are several benefits to having active kids. Children who are physically active will:
* have stronger bones and muscles
* have a lower body fat percentage
* decrease risk of obesity as children and in the future
* decrease risk of health problems such as diabetes, high blood pressure and high cholesterol
* have a better attitude and confidence in their abilities to cope with physical, emotional, and social stresses
* start good habits for healthy lifestyles now which will stay with them as they grow
With school, music lessons, homework, etc, it is sometimes hard to find structured time for your kids to exercise. The truth is, they don’t need much, but the key is to incorporate the activity into your normal day. Toddlers and preschoolers need about 1.5-2 hours of activity a day. School age children need at least one hour. Here are some ideas to keeping your kids active and healthy--
1. Enroll them in classes or organized sports that they enjoy. Many community recreation centers offer cheap, or sometimes even free classes for children. Most communities have several leagues throughout the year that are easy to get involved in.
2. Use your yard or sidewalk!! Run around with your kids chasing a ball, throwing a Frisbee or football, or set up a mock game of soccer. It is amazing how much exercise children get when they are out “just playing”.
3. Take your kids swimming at a local rec. center pool. Swimming (or enrolling in swim lessons) not only teaches them a valuable safety skill, but it is an excellent cardiovascular workout and kids have fun in water.
4. One those cold winter days, use your stairs!! We play many stair games in our house which require the kids to go up and down several times. You have to get creative, but the stairs are a great ‘prop’ when it comes to games that get your kids active. (you should see how much they sweat going up and down those stairs!)
5. For kids who aren’t “athletic” find other activities they may enjoy--dance, gymnastics, take a walk to collect leaves, go on a nature hike, go on a bike ride, or skip down to the mailbox everyday to get the mail.
The human body is meant to move and be active! Our bodies are healthier, our minds clearer and our hearts are happier when we exercise and stay physically active--our children are the same! They need the physical activity just as much, if not more than adults do. Remember, it doesn’t have to be a structured event or a solid hour of straight activity--keep it fun and do little things throughout the day to promote physical activity.
So turn off your TV this afternoon and GO PLAY!!!
Thursday, November 12, 2009
Turkey's Teaching
Here are a few more creative ways to integrate learning into the Thanksgiving holiday. These ideas are from the Education World website.
Language Arts (vocabulary development). Help children learn the meanings of turkey-related words: wattle, tom, hen, poult (a young turkey). Make up "turkey rhymes" using those words.
Nutrition/Cooking. Many people eat turkey leftovers. Ask children to list as many ways as they can think of to use turkey the day after. (turkey sandwiches, soup, salad, casserole, potpie)
Arts/Crafts. Make turkeys for holiday centerpieces, gifts, or greeting cards.
Paper bag turkeys. Stuff a brown paper lunch bag with crumpled newspaper. Tightly tie the open end of the bag, creating a neck for the turkey. Attach a paper turkey head. Tape or glue colored feathers to the flat end of the bag.
Circle turkeys. Attach a large, brown paper circle to the center of a bulletin board or wall. Add a red turkey head and turkey legs cut from paper. Children can cut out feathers from colored paper. Attach all feathers to the turkey. (Some children might want to write "turkey facts" on the feathers.)
Hand turkeys. Children can trace their hands on paper. (Younger children can trace each other's hands if necessary.) The hand will form the turkey's body; the thumb the turkey's head; and the spread fingers, the turkey's feathers. Children can add feet and color. They can also make a whole bunch of turkeys this way!
Coloring turkeys. Print out a "Thanksgiving Turkey" coloring picture for children to color.
Turkey Games. Play one of these turkey games with your children.
Play "Pin the Feathers on the Turkey."
Encourage children to make up their own turkey games or make up turkey names for familiar games. (How about Duck, Duck, Turkey? Ring around the Turkey? Dodge Turkey?)
www.education-world.com/a_lesson/lesson036.shtml
Wednesday, November 11, 2009
Having a Good Back-Up System Means Going the Extra Mile
What can be done?
Car manufacturers offer new and innovative tools to help avoid such tragedies such as special backing up devices, mirrors and special safety lenses which are designed to reduce the blind spots directly behind your vehicle. These safety tools allow you to see children, pets, toys and other obstructions which the drivers of most vehicles would otherwise miss.
Backup accidents are avoidable with a little help from this technology but the absolute best solution to this ever-increasing problem is for drivers to make a habit of walking around their vehicles before backing up to make certain there are no obstacles. We live in a hurry-up world which is filled with many distractions and it is behind the wheel of a vehicle where parents can be the most distracted. Let’s slow down before getting behind the wheel of a car and make that very important trip around the outside of our cars to insure the safety and security of our children. We make certain that they “buckle-up” once inside the car, so let’s “go the extra mile” and keep them safe when they aren’t in their safety belts.
Monday, November 9, 2009
Maclaren Stroller Recall Due to Hinge Danger: 1 Million Strollers Recalled - ABC News
Maclaren has announced a stroller recall due to children's fingertips getting amputated by the hinge.
Visit the following website to learn more:
Maclaren Stroller Recall Due to Hinge Danger: 1 Million Strollers Recalled - ABC News
The company said to stop using the strollers and call Maclaren toll-free at (877) 688-2326. Their website, www.maclarenbaby.com, is currently down due to scheduled maintenance.
Saturday, November 7, 2009
Pumpkin-Seed Brittle
This is a great recipe from http://www.marthastewart.com/ with pumpkin seeds as the main ingredient.
Ingredients
Serves 4
* 1/4 cup (1/2 stick) unsalted butter, plus more for baking sheet
* 1/2 cup packed light-brown sugar
* 1/4 cup honey
* 1 cup fresh pumpkin seeds, rinsed well, dried, and toasted
Directions
1. Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Butter an 11-by-17- inch rimmed baking sheet; set aside.
2. Melt butter in a small saucepan over medium heat. Stir in sugar and honey. Bring to a boil. Cook, without stirring, until mixture is medium amber and a candy thermometer registers 280 degrees. about 6 minutes. Stir in pumpkin seeds. Cook until mixture reaches 300 degrees. about 2 minutes. Pour onto prepared baking sheet. Let cool completely. Break into pieces.
From Martha Stewart Living, October 2006
Awesome Website Alert
Learning about science is not always on the top of kids to do lists, but thanks to the Internet, there are a lot of really cool and educational websites out there that actually make science fun and entertaining. The website learn.genetics.utah.edu has been around for over a year, but in late October the websites link showed up on a popular social networking site and quickly became one of the top 10 most visited sites on the Internet. At one point it was getting 270 hits per second, which is pretty amazing for an Internet site.
For a really cool look into the actual size of a carbon atom, visit learn.genetics.utah.edu/content/begin/cells/scale/index.html. A picture of a coffee bean, a grain of rice, and a few other small items will show up. Use your mouse and scroll along the scroll bar below the picture to zoom in and see how small some of these cells really are and get ready to be amazed!
CHI for ME!
Friday, November 6, 2009
My Gym Offers Tips for National Kids Goal Setting Week
"Learning how to set and achieve goals doesn't just teach a child to finish something they start," said Monique Vranesh, founding partner of My Gym Enterprises. "It teaches them responsibility, it boosts their self-esteem, and it makes them a better person overall."
Vranesh offers the following tips to help parents show their children how to set goals:
•Start small. Setting little goals for your children, such as teaching a younger child to brush his or her teeth when first waking up in the morning, having your teenager complete his or her chores by a certain time of day, or even teaching your children to eat all of their food before dessert time can lead to setting bigger goals.
•Get them to think smart. Teaching your children to make goals about their education is a starting point for them to make similar goals as they get older and head to college. And, later they will use these skills when establishing their careers. Here is a suggestion: Encourage your child to choose a book to read and have them set a goal of reading one book every two months, along with their schoolwork. Of course, the time period can be changed based on their schoolwork volume. The important thing is to just set a goal.
•Lead by example. Your child will be more likely to do something if they see their parents doing it. Therefore, make a goal for yourself and tell your child about it. For example, incorporate more exercise in your life, and bring your child along with you.
My Gym provides programs for children to better their physical health, but the programs also help children build self-esteem and confidence that carry over into all aspects of a child's life, Vranesh said. For more information, or to book a birthday party or free trial class, visit www.mygym.com
SSA Public Relations
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Copyright Business Wire 2009
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Thursday, November 5, 2009
Encouraging Gifted Children
How can we help our kids excel academically when they are not encouraged to do so at school? Skipping a grade level is not always an option, and while it might alleviate boredom and foster advanced academics, it has associated social and developmental concerns. Teachers who are allowed to offer differentiated instruction where they can adapt lesson plans to accommodate different ability levels are far and few between.
The Institute for Research and Policy on Acceleration has an excellent Questions and Answers forum, a few of which are highlighted here:
Should I accelerate my child?
Research indicates that acceleration is a social and academic success story; in many cases, it is the right intervention for students whose needs are not met in age-grouped classrooms.
The more relevant question might be "what form of acceleration is most appropriate for my child?" For many people, acceleration is synonymous with grade skipping, although grade skipping is just one form of acceleration. Early entrance to kindergarten or 1st grade, dual enrollment in high school and college, and subject matter acceleration are different forms of acceleration that may work for some students.
Choosing an accelerative intervention requires careful consideration of many factors, and the type of acceleration that works well with one child may not work well with another. The support of family and friends, the student’s level of academic and social-emotional development, the student’s age and physical development, and the beliefs of local school personnel are all factors to consider. For example, students who skip grades need emotional maturity as well as academic ability in order to succeed. With single-subject acceleration, however, the more important criterion is academic ability, and social-emotional maturity may be less of a concern.
Will my accelerated child fit in socially and have friends?
Parents and caregivers are deeply concerned about their child’s social and emotional health and want to ensure that their child has membership in a peer group. Many intellectually advanced children have experienced the social isolation that comes not from having a true intellectual peer in the same grade. Acceleration can benefit some children socially because it allows them to socialize with older peers who are more likely to share interests and are closer to the intellectual level of the accelerated child. For some children, acceleration may finally provide the opportunity to make a friend. The social fit of the child is a larger issue for grade skipping than for forms of acceleration that keep the child in the grade-level classroom (such as subject matter acceleration).
How important are the age and school grade of siblings when considering acceleration?
An important rule of thumb in acceleration is that a student not be skipped into the same grade as an older sibling. Such a move will introduce the accelerated child into the social and academic territory of the older sibling. Even if a school offers more than one class at the given grade level or if the accelerated student could be moved to another school, acceleration into the same grade as an older sibling is not recommended.
Students who are not accelerated due to a sibling’s age or grade still need to be challenged, however. Alternative methods for increasing their academic challenge must be identified and implemented. One method that can be used is to pair the student with a mentor who works professionally in a field that is related to the student’s academic interest areas. Other ways to increase challenge can be found in books such as Re-Forming Gifted Education: Matching the Program to the Child (Rogers, 2002) and include participation in regional or national competitions based upon individual or group projects, through programs such as Destination Imagination™, Knowledgemaster, Invention Convention™, Math Olympiad, and Future Problem Solving. The key is to find ways to provide meaning, usefulness, and structure, and thereby motivation, to a student’s extended learning.
Are there support groups for parents and children who participate in various forms of acceleration?
There are many websites that deal with issues of gifted children. A few popular sites developed by parents are:
http://www.gtworld.org
http://www.tagfam.org/
http://www.hoagiesgifted.org/
These sites provide listserv and other resources for a variety of issues and concerns common to gifted children and their families. The Hoagies’ site has a section dedicated to personal stories and research on acceleration.
What are some of your solutions to helping your gifted child succeed?
Thanksgiving Websites to be Thankful For
Picture this…a nice Thanksgiving morning, perfectly brisk out but not too cold, the sun is shining and a turkey is in the oven. Mom is in the kitchen trying to make the stuffing, cranberry sauce, and all the other yummy side dishes that go along with the turkey. Kids are busily running around her, excited for the festivities to begin and cousins to arrive. They scurry around the kitchen asking for a snack, whining that brother just took sister’s toy, crying because someone needs a nap…you get the idea.
As Thanksgiving approaches and kids are out of school for a few days, it’s a good idea to be prepared with activities for them to be busily working on while you get your Thanksgiving preparations taken care of.
Check out www.primarygames.com/holidays/thanksgiving/thanksgiving.htm and dltk-holidays.com/thanksgiving/index.html. These are great websites that offer holiday themed coloring pages and games which you can print out for your little ones. You can also print out place cards which your child can decorate and place on the table for your holiday guests. The best part is, it’s all free!
Wednesday, November 4, 2009
Making money by selling your Halloween candy?
This might sound counter intuitive. Your child spends weeks, sometimes even months, creating a costume and getting together with friends to go trick or treating, then turns around and sells the candy? According to Fox28 in Indiana, this is exactly what some kids are doing and what dentists are encouraging them to do.
In Madison, Indiana, dentists are paying children to bring their candy into the dental office and are actually paying $1 per pound of candy. As I was thinking about this concept, I thought it was interesting and definitely thought provoking. To me, this takes all the fun out of Halloween. This poor child goes trick or treating, then is tempted by a big bag of candy that was so innocently asked for at a strangers door, only to be rushed to the dentist office the next day. Not only do kids not like going to the dentist’s office, but then to top it off, they have to give the dentist their candy!
Then I thought about how this might be a good parenting strategy. It would definitely be an entrepreneurial learning experience for the child to go out, collect a free product, in this case candy, then get paid real cash for it! Further life lessons could be taught to the child by stashing that money away in a savings account or the child could even buy a game that the whole family could play and enjoy together. I am so glad that I was taught how to be a good business woman and to save money and use it wisely. This is a hard concept to teach and the best way to do it is by example.
This idea actually has quite a few good points. The kids miss out on all those cavities they most certainly would have developed, and mom and dad get to teach good financial skills in the process.
Although sometimes it's fun to just let kids be kids and eat a whole bunch of candy one night out of the year!
http://www.fox28.com/Global/story.asp?S=11439774
Tuesday, November 3, 2009
Dealing with Disappointment - When Life Gives You Lemon Sorbet...
Over a few shared spoonfuls, we talked about how to be happy with what we have even if it isn't what we expected. Some tips to helping your children manage their feelings of frustration and sadness are:
- Teach them to have realistic expectations
- Emphasize the importance of having a positive attitude in the face of disappointing circumstances
- Don't shelter kids from their mistakes or inadequacies
- Calmly talk them through disappointing experiences
While our ice cream outing turned sour initially, we were able to walk away with a better understanding of how to approach decision making and disappointment, and hopefully next time instead of tears we will have chocolate.
Bake This - Chocolate Chip Pumpkin Bread
As Fall gives way to chilly Winter temperatures, it's not too late to fill your kitchen with the savory and spicy aromas of pumpkin, cinnamon and cloves. Warm the hearts and tummies of your appreciative family and friends with this delicious Pumpkin Chocolate Chip Bread!
3 1/4 cups all purpose flour
2 teaspoons baking soda
1 1/2 teaspoons ground nutmeg
2 cups solid pack pumpkin puree
1 cup vegetable oil
1 cup chocolate chips
1 1/2 teaspoons salt
1 1/2 teaspoons cinnamon
3 cups white sugar
2/3 cup water
4 eggs
Prep Work:
Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Grease and flour pans. You can pour this batter into three 7x3-in. pans or one large 9x5-in. pan.
Measure flour, sugar, baking soda, salt, and spices into a large bowl. Stir to combine. Add pumpkin, water, vegetable oil, eggs, and chocolate chips. Beat until well combined. Pour batter into prepared pans.
Bake for about 1 hour.
Monday, November 2, 2009
Baby Einstein Videos - Disney Offers Refunds
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Sunday, November 1, 2009
Raising Happy, Healthy Kids: Past, Present, and Future
For a bit of background about our family, our mom raised four kids who are now well-adjusted, independent, successful adults. The oldest, Matt, went to a top rated medical school and is an emergency room doctor in the Midwest and enjoys riding dirt bikes, reading, and studying the stock market. In addition to a PhD in Cell and Molecular Biology, Cara has three girls ages 9, 5, and 2, and juggles a busy work schedule with parenting and her hobbies which include surfing and ocean swimming. Megan, who graduated with a degree in nursing, has 7 year old triplets, a 4 year old, and a 6 month old to balance between competing in triathlons and fostering her creative side. Lindsay, the youngest, has had a successful career in social work and operational consulting while enjoying her 1 year old daughter and hiking with her husband.
We were all raised with a strong commitment to education and family, and are here to share our parenting perspectives with you while experimenting with them on our own kids! We don't claim to have any of the true answers to success, but we hope you will join for this exciting adventure.....stay tuned for more to come. Please comment and let us know if you have any questions or topics you would like to see covered.