Thursday, December 31, 2009

New Years Eve Activities

New Years Eve seems to be an adult holiday, with a lot of parties, dancing, and staying up late. Here are a few ideas to get your kids into the holiday spirit as well. These ideas are from crafts.kaboose.com. Check out this website for more New Years crafts and activities for you kids!

1. New Years Resolution Magnet: Stick your new years resolutions on the refrigerator so kids can be reminded of their resolutions all year long!




2. Sparkly Foam Sequin Ball: This is a fun ornament to hang in your house and it will keep your kids busy for a little while as they decorate the cheap foam balls!



3. New Years Countdown Clock: Easy and fun countdown clock to build anticipation for the New year!








Wednesday, December 30, 2009

New Year's Eve Traditions



With the Christmas festivities wrapping up, we are now looking forward to our New Year's Eve tradition...fireworks at the beach!  Every year we bring a few boxes of fireworks down to Castle beach near our house and do sparklers and a few more exciting (read: dangerous) types of firecrackers in the sand.  The kids dance and play around the fire pit and we ring in the new year with a bang and lots of laughs.  What are your New Year's Eve activity or food traditions?  Here's to you in 2010, Happy New Year!

Tuesday, December 29, 2009

Christmas Clearance

Now is the time to go out and score great clearance prices on Christmas inventory, toys for your kids, and winter clothes. Some stores have clearance items all over the store, so be sure to check every isle for great deals on toys and winter clothing for next year. Be thinking ahead into next year for gifts that you can get your family and friends. It's hard to look so far ahead, but your pocket book will thank you when it comes time to buy gifts for everyone again next year.

There is buzz going around on the Internet that Target's Clearance is the best around. Expected markdown dates are as follows:

Dec 26 - Jan 1= 50%
Jan 2 - Jan 6= 75%
Jan 7 = 90%

In January Old Navy also does a sale of 50% off all clearance items. You can really get some great, cheap clothes for your children during this mark down event also.

Remember, only buy something if you need it and will use it for a future gift. Don't just go out and buy something simply because it is a good deal! Have a specific person or place in mind when buying clearance items.

Enjoy and happy shopping!

Monday, December 28, 2009

Best Childrens Books of 2009

We are in the throes of the winter break, and now with Christmas over, we have another week to fill up.  Publishers Weekly identified the best childrens books of 2009 in this article, saying "2009 held a treasure trove of wonderful reading for children of all ages and interests."  So check out the article, then go to your local library and check out a few good books to read in the coming weeks and months!

Wednesday, December 23, 2009

Believe

The Wall Street Journal had a recent article about the "Power of Magical Thinking", and highlighted a study that showed how cognitive development and imagination in childhood is an important aspect in understanding reality.  The study touched on belief in Santa and other fantasy characters, and what influences how and when children distinguish between what is real and what is not.  I thought the article was really interesting, a glimpse into how kids cope and process the world around them. 

But what do you do when you are asked that dreaded question, is Santa real?  A few years ago our daughter, then 7, was clearly struggling with the idea that Santa really didn't make much sense, and asked us point blank what was up.  We hemmed and hawed and tried to think of something to say, and she said 'Really, tell me the truth!'  So we dropped the bomb and for a split second there was disappointment, followed by a sense of relief on her end. 

Experts recommend asking curious kids who appear ready for the truth, "Is there something you saw or heard that makes you think Santa isn't real?" and "What do you think?" to try and encourage a balance that to lets children be open to possibility but also to question.  Another article that addresses this issue can be found in the London Free Press

The magic of Christmas is so much more than believing in Santa - but what fun it is when kids still have that innocent excitement on Christmas morning!!  Even though some of are long past the days of truly believing, we're looking forward to Friday and all the enjoyment of the season....

Tuesday, December 22, 2009

The Grinch Who Stole Christmas


The Grinch Who Stole Christmas is one of my very favorite Christmas movies. Unfortunately I have read two articles this past week in which the premise of this movie actually happens! Of course not to the extent of stealing a whole town's Christmas gifts, Christmas trees, and food, but on a smaller scale where robbers actually stole gifts intended for needy children.

I am saddened that even in the Christmas season, people are so heartless to go and steal presents from children who will probably not get a single gift this Christmas. In our culture, it seems we place a high priority on gifts. Do children really need all those toys? Will they ever play with all the gifts they were given? What if we scaled back a little, bought only a few presents for our kids, and placed more importance on giving to others and service this season?

Kids deserve the joy of opening a few presents on Christmas and they should feel the generosity of others. Maybe I'll scale back this year and see if they even notice!

Saturday, December 19, 2009

Easy Holiday Toffee

My mom is a fabulous cook, and growing up we were treated to so many yummy holiday foods.  My mom used to make the most delicious, buttery toffee for friends and neighbors as gifts, and I always crave a taste of it right around Christmas.  Since I'm not quite as handy as she is in the kitchen I found (courtesy of my sister, lindsay) a super easy 'faux' toffee recipe that satisfies my both my craving and my mediocre kitchen skills.  

The ingredients are:

4 oz saltine crackers (one sleeve)
1 cup butter (oh ya!)
1/2 cup granulated sugar
1/2 cup brown sugar
dash of vanilla
2 cups semi sweet chocolate chips or squares from a hershey's bar
crushed candy cane or chopped nuts (optional)

Then all you do is:

Preheat oven to 400 deg F.  Line the cookie sheet with the crackers in a single layer.  In a saucepan, bring the sugars and butter to a boil and boil for 3 minutes.  Remove from heat and add about 1 teaspoon of vanilla.  Immediately pour over the saltines and spread to cover crackers completely.  Bake at 400 deg F for 4-5 minutes.  Remove from oven and sprinkle chocolate chips on top and spread as they melt.  Top with crushed candy cane or nuts (optional). Cool completely.  Break into pieces and enjoy!

Friday, December 18, 2009

Carrots for Santa?

A newly published article in the British Medical Journal entitled "Santa Claus: A Public Health Pariah?" suggests that the current image of Santa promotes an unhealthy lifestyle.  According to Dr. Nathan Grills from Monash University in Australia, the image of Santa promotes obesity, drinking and (sleigh) driving, smoking cigars, and speeding, and that Santa's popularity could instead be used to encourage a more healthy lifestyle. The author even argues that Santa could potentially be a vector for infectious diseases if children sitting on his lap multiple times a day are exposed to any sniffle or flu bug he might be carrying. 

I'm all for healthy living, and yes, maybe Santa could stand to lose a few pounds, but what happens if you take away the reindeer, sleigh, and christmas cookies?  A tanned, toned Santa in a Speedo drinking protein shakes wearing a flu mask? Wait, haven't I seen that skating around Venice Beach already?  I'll take the jolly guy in the red suit for a month every year over that...the next thing you know they'll be blaming Santa and his reindeer emissions for global warming. Sheesh, give the guy a break!

Thursday, December 17, 2009

Children's H1N1 Vaccine recall



The news today is reporting to the public that 800,000 doses of H1N1 vaccine directed at children ages 6 months to 3 years have been recalled due to a suspected decrease in strength and potency. Physicians have been notified of the voluntary recall, however it is believed that most of the vaccine has been administered to children. The CDC is reassuring parents however that there is no need to be concerned; the vaccine their child received is safe, it just may be lacking in potency.

You can see a link to today's headline at FOX news here.



I suppose the take home message for parents is keep washing hands religiously and keep kids home when they don't feel well and away from others who are sick. It will be challenging to keep kids healthy this season when family members get together for holiday festivities and everyone is sleeping over at Grandma's. It may be a good idea to arrive at your holiday parties with bottles of hand sanitizer (or germ blaster as we call it!) to have around the house and try to keep those nasty contagious germs at bay.



Stay healthy this holiday!!


Wednesday, December 16, 2009

Bananagrams

A friend told me about this fun game called Bananagrams. I'm totally loving the name, its so clever and I'm finding myself wishing I had come up with something so cool!   I found it on Amazon.com (click to link directly to it) for $15 and I'm considering buying it as a Christmas gift for my girls.  I've never played it myself, but I'll probably dive in and join the craze anyway...has anyone else ever played it?  Sounds like a fun game for the whole family without the hassle of counting up points and bickering over triple letter scores.  I'll let you know if its a hit or not...

Tuesday, December 15, 2009

It's a BOOK fair, not a TOY fair!



Tonight I convinced my husband that it would be a great idea for him to take the four older kids to our school’s annual book fair. He was hesitant, but I told him the kids already knew the rule--one book, and it has to be less than $10. So off they went. But when they returned, my husband said, “Next year, its YOUR turn!”
It turns out the book fair really isn’t about BOOKS. It’s all about the stuffed animals and toys they sell *with* the books, like the ones that come with fancy pens with furry heads on them, or that have a pen with dog prints on it since it happens to be with a book about a dog. He said that those were the items the kids wanted, NOT the books. It is sad that in an effort to promote literacy and enjoyment in reading, they promote all the toys just to lure the kids into spending a lot of their parent’s money on toys and do-dads. He said he thinks the ladies running the whole deal probably thought he was the meanest Dad there since he refused to buy the teddy bears.


So, I think next year we’ll skip the book fair…and hit the public library instead!

Monday, December 14, 2009

The Twinkie--A lesson in delayed gratification



Last week we saw Grandma. They love to see Grandma because they know that she *never* comes empty handed! She always brings some little goodie for them to eat. This last time, she brought Twinkies. I can't think of a better treat! Neither could my kids. They were all happily devouring their Twinkies when I noticed one of my boys ate one small part of his, then carefully stuck the remaining yumminess back into its packaging and went off to put it somewhere. About two days later, he appeared with his little package of partially eaten Twinkies and gave me very specific instructions. He said, "Mom, please don't throw these away. I want you to put them in my backpack tomorrow for our afternoon snack at school."

I have to say I was amazed at his restraint. He hadn't eaten it all the moment it was given to him. Then, he had the control to keep it in a safe spot (where the other kids wouldn't find it) and not sneak a few bites sometime in the night or whenever else his sweet tooth called for a goodie. He had kept it, saved it, and waited for just the right time.

I was really proud that a 7 year old could delay the gratification of inhaling his Twinkies. That afternoon he came home all smiles, having thoroughly enjoyed his treat at snack time in the classroom. I'm sure all his table-mates were jealously salivating over his snack!

Later that evening I received a "kindly reminder" from the 1st grade teachers--letting me know that snacks needed to be "healthy, and easy to eat so they don't make a mess on the desks."

Sorry Ms. B. I would much rather send my boy to school with a sugary, frosting filled dessert, but know that at such a young age he was able to use a little self control (which is really hard when you're a 7 year old boy!) and delay the gratification of eating such a fine dessert. We live in a society that demands immediate gratification. It is very hard for our kids to learn to wait for the good things.

I'm sure it tasted a lot better than Brandon's carrots!

Friday, December 11, 2009

Top 100 High Schools

USA News and World Report published the 2010 Gold Medal List of the top 100 public high schools in the U.S.  After looking at more than 21,000 schools, they came up with the top 100 based on a variety of rankings.  We are proud to say that we went to school #93 on that list, Saratoga High!  Ok, so all the high school memories weren't rosy, but the bottom line is we had an excellent education that prepared us well for college and life beyond.    Thanks SHS!

Thursday, December 10, 2009

The Muslin Swaddling Blanket--A Product Review




There is nothing sweeter to me than seeing a newborn baby all swaddled up tight in a little blanket! Babies love to be swaddled, and it is well known that mothers have been swaddling their infants for thousands of years.
On a recent trip to Target, I made a wonderful discovery, and I want to share it with every mother of an infant I know! I found a pack of these swaddling blankets made from cotton muslin fabric. I bought the pack and gave three to a new mom I know as a baby gift and kept one for my 6 month old. This muslin swaddling blanket is made by aden + anais, you can see their website here. I couldn’t be happier with this blanket. The fabric is soft, has a little give to it which makes it great for swaddling (and staying put!), and is big enough to wrap up even a 6 month old. It is so lightweight and breathable, it is perfect for summer or warmer climates. It also makes a great nursing cover for this same reason--it allows baby to breath without getting too warm. The only downside I would say would be cost--at Target I paid 29.99 for a pack of 4. But, absolutely worth every penny in my opinion. Check out their website--if you weren’t a convert to swaddling, you will be after reading what they have to say about it!

Wednesday, December 9, 2009

Potty Training Tips

I have had both of my older daughters successfully (day) potty trained right around the age of 2, but my biggest challenge is coming up....my third and final is very stubborn, opinionated, and a little behind in some of her developmental milestones.  She turns two this weekend, and I have a sinking feeling that I will be buying diapers from costco for a few more months at least.  Bummer!  I'm always so glad when the diaper days are over. 

My personal theory to potty training is to start talking about it, get out the little kids toilet so they can explore and play with it a little, and getting them used to the idea from about 18 months.  Let them roam outside without a diaper so they can learn to correlate the feeling of peeing with the words that you will use to identify it.  Yes, it can be messy, and yes I've even found a few logs with the naked roaming method!  Then around 2, get them excited about it, try underwear, and see how things go for a few hours at a time when you're home.  My method is a long drawn out process but I find that if you catch them when they are at the age where clapping and praise are driving forces for their actions, instead of waiting until they figure out that they can be defiant and do the opposite of what you want, its a better match.  This OregonLive article has some more tips.....anyone want to share successful potty training methods?  I have a feeling my old tricks won't work with my last child.....I need some pointers this time around!

Tuesday, December 8, 2009

Favorite Holiday Books for Children


My one year old absolutely loves books! I'm trying to come up with some fun Christmas books for her to read to get her in the holiday spirit :) She's not very fond of Santa right now, so maybe if I introduced her properly to him through pictures, she might come around to liking him a little bit more!

1. The Polar Express: Written by Chris Van Allsburg, this is a classic holiday themed story with bright, big pictures and a great story line about never being able to forget the magic of Christmas. You will love this book as a child and you will continue to love it as an adult!

2. The Legend of the Poinsettia by Tomie dePaola: A Mexican legend about Poinsettia's with great illustrations. This book will captivate you with its pictures as it tells a story about a little girl and her mother who are chosen to complete a blanket to place at their church's Christmas manager. Read it to your children to find out what miracle takes place!

3. The First Christmas by Tomie dePaola: This is a pop up book telling the story of Christmas, ending in a manger scene. Children love pop up books and this will become a Christmas favorite!

What are your favorite children Christmas books?

Monday, December 7, 2009

Get out your wallet....

So I hate to bring this up during the holidays when we are already stretching our budgets to make this time of year magical for our kids, but have you started thinking about investing in your child's future education?  I know, I know, with what extra money?? 

Here's some good news for you, some experts actually advise against setting up a dedicated college fund, and have some pretty good reasons why its more important to save for your own retirement than for your kid's future tuition.  Check it out at MSN Money Central.  Now back to that Christmas shopping.....

Friday, December 4, 2009

Ideas for Reducing Screen Time for Kids


I realized after writing recently about the need to limit screen time for our kids that there was no “how” involved! I’ve been trying to limit my kid’s TV time a little more (especially for my 3 year old who is bored while the big kids are at school) but I wasn’t too sure where to start. So I’ve been thinking about it and came up with a few ideas. I also found some great tips on limiting TV time here.

1. Set limits and rules as a family--timers work great for kids and if they know they have X amount of time to watch or play computer, they will be less likely to be mad at mom when time’s up--blame the timer!
2. Set the example as the adults--Kid’s won’t take the rules seriously if they see us sitting in front of the tube for hours on end instead of doing something active.
3. Keep TV’s and computers OUT of children’s rooms. Both should really be family items and whatever is viewed on them should be available and reasonably appropriate for most members of the family. 4. No TV during meal time--make meal time about sharing a meal and socializing with each other and discussing the events of the day. This will take the focus off of food and kids will stop eating when they are full rather than eating mindlessly in front of the TV which can lead to obesity.
5. Don’t use TV as a reward--this puts too much emphasis on TV and it will become even that much more important to children.
6. Plan out your shows--let the kids pick a few programs they will want to watch during the week. Then either record them or set aside that time its on for your kids to watch. This way there is more purpose to the TV watching and they can look forward to their TV time and their show. (Honestly, how did we survive before Tivo and DVRs?!)

I have four *avid* computer lovers. They love sites like PBS.org, nickjr.com, star fall.com, and playhouseDisney.com. One thing we do that works right now is “Stations”. Each gets about 15 min. at each station--one of course being computer. The other stations are a chore, homework, reading, free play, etc, but it allows some good computer time but it isn’t the main focus--its just part of the station rotation.

What has worked in your family to control screen time with your kids? How do you limit it without making it a huge battle? I’d love to hear what works for others, since I can tell as my kids get older, the challenge is different.

Wednesday, December 2, 2009

Choosing the Right School for Your Child

We are knee deep into the school year right now, but for some it is time to re-evaluate their child’s school situation and start considering options for next year, especially for those in private settings. Since we have an impending move coming in the next six months, I’m finding myself referring to http://www.greatschools.net/ to check out information on possible schools. I found a great article on that website that outlined some things to ask and think about when considering a school, so I thought I’d pass them on.

* Does your child require special attention due to learning or physical disabilities?

* How close do you need to be to the school? If you live far from the school, is there after school care to watch your child before you get off work?

*Do the facilities meet your expectations? Are they clean, safe, and are there ample supplies/resources for the children?

*What kind of extra-curricular activities are offered (sports, music, art, theater, etc.)?

*How much homework is required of older students? At what age is homework sent home?

*What does the school expect in terms of parent involvement? Does it accommodate to your schedule and ability to be involved at school?

*What is the school’s discipline policy?

*What are the teacher to student ratios? Are teachers appropriately educated, certified and credentialed?

*What does it cost?

Kids spend a large portion of their day at school, and school greatly affects their development. It is where they learn social skills, academics, and how to follow directions--life skills that need to be taught in a way that will work for you and your child. I know for us finding the right preschool was very hard to do. One of the best ways I have found good schools have been by word of mouth. Make a list of questions that are important to you and don’t be afraid to ask them. Good luck finding the right fit for your child---happy learning!

Go to http://www.greatschools.net/ for more information...

Tuesday, December 1, 2009

Scentsy - Great Gift Idea!

If you’re like me, you love warm, comforting smells during the holidays. Heaven knows I’m not baking cinnamon cookies all day, but darn it, I want my house to smell like I am!!

About a year ago I discovered what many already knew about--Scentsy’s wickless candles. Seriously, what an ingenious idea! I love candles and the delicious smells they give off, but with little ones around, it made me nervous to have candles burning. Plus, I had read somewhere that the soot and smoke from the candles was harmful. With Scentsy “candles”, you place a wax bar in a small dish over a warmer that is heated by a 25 watt light bulb. The heat from this low watt bulb is just enough to melt the wax and it gives off these beautiful aromas. BUT, the best part is, its not hot enough to burn the skin, so if one of the kids knocks it over, they won’t be harmed.

Some benefits of these great warmers are:

*Soot free, wickless, flameless, and smokeless
*Incredibly potent, highly scented wax blend candle bars
*More fragrant than votives, tarts, or wax chips
*Over 80 fragrances
*50 to 60 hours of burn time per bar
*A safer and healthier alternative to wicked candles
*beautifully designed and unique warmers

These are great just about anywhere -- dorm rooms, bathrooms, kitchens, daycares, offices, classrooms, etc. And if that’s not enough, they even have car candles, sprays and plug-ins. I have loved having a warmer and I’m loving experimenting with different bars. Check them out, they make GREAT holiday gifts, or just treat yourself to one!

www.scentsy.com/jenh

The PERFECT Kid’s Cup -- A product review

My triplets are in first grade. I was in a real dilemma when they came home from school the first day and said they had to have a “water bottle” at their desk. Obviously, they are too old for the sippy cups in the cupboard. But, I still don’t trust their motor skills enough to send them off with a twist top water bottle or a flip-lid type cup. I didn’t want wet, soggy backpacks everyday from their leaky water bottles.

I was at Costco and found these PERFECT cups! They came in a four pack that cost about $16. I am in LOVE with these cups! They are the perfect blend of “spill-proof sippy cup” and “cool sports bottle.” They are made by Contigo, who also makes a line of spill proof cups for adults. They claim this is the perfect cup for your children “because they may outgrow their sippy cups, but they never outgrow spilling.”

Their cups for kids are called AUTOSEAL Kids. They are BPA free, they look great, and are incredibly easy to use, even for my small 3 year old who has tiny hands. There is a small opening where the liquid comes out. To activate the flow of liquid, you press a big “button” on the cup. The button is easy for little hands to press down and the drink comes right out. The best part is, they are EASY to wash! No valves or tiny parts. Just unscrew the lid, and put both the cup and lid on the top rack of your dishwasher and you’re set. Contigo claims that these cups are 100% Spill-proof and 100% leak-proof. So far, after 2 months of hard, heavy use by four of my kids, I can say this is true.

I am totally confident sending these cups in the kids’ backpacks or lunches and I know they are happy with a *cool* looking cup of water on their desk. Sure beats a Dora sippy cup!

I just had to share my great find with other moms. Check out their website at
http://www.gocontigo.com/ . You can even watch a video of the cups in action!

Monday, November 30, 2009

Tis the Season - Reducing Holiday Stress



In addition to sweets, presents, family, and fun, the holidays can also induce ulcers, gallstones, and headaches!  If you don't think that kids are prone to the stressful hustle and bustle of the holiday season, think again.  Kids can be quite sensitive to the changes in routine, excitement, travel, food, and general overstimulation that accompany the season of giving. 

We were able to spend a few relaxing days on Maui over the Thanksgiving holiday and the take home message I got was that the kids were just as happy with a pool and some quality family time than a big turkey dinner with the accompanying stresses of dressing up, food preparation, etc.  Of course we would love to live closer to family and enjoy grandparents (and mom's home cooking!!) and cousin time, but we also recognized that we can help kids reduce the stress of the holidays by taking a few steps back and simplifying things for them.


A few tips for managing the holidays with little ones are:
  • Stick to your routines as much as possible.  Keeping bedtimes and naptimes routine will help avoid over-exhausted kids.  
  • Keep nutritious foods around, and encourage healthy habits including routine excersize
  • Plan ahead to avoid last minute anxiety.
  • Talk to your kids about tradition and spirituality and the importance of those things in your holiday celebrations.
  • Plan a 'giving' activity like serving food at a shelter, preparing stockings for less fortunate kids, or taking cookies to elderly neighbors.
Most of all, take time to step back and enjoy the season of giving, family, friends, food, and traditions!  In the end, the kids will remember those lasting memories more than they will the toys....

Friday, November 27, 2009

Too much TV??

I stuck my kids in front of a movie the other day and one of my boys chided me by saying, “our brains are going to turn to mush if we watch so much TV.” I laughed, but his wisdom came flooding back to me as I read a recent article in The Oregonian, a Portland based newspaper. The article, TV time a health hazard for children (Nov. 23, 2009), compares screen time to the most dangerous substance in our homes. It is an issue that has been studied at length, and I feel there is merit to many of their claims.

The general guidelines for screen time (which includes television, video games, and computers) are that kids 2 and older should be limited to two hours a day (unless doing homework) and children under 2 should NEVER use screen media. The article claims that children who exceed these guidelines are more likely to:

*be overweight
*smoke
*have high blood pressure
*bully other children
*have sleeping problems
*develop ADD
*lag behind in language and social skills
*drink alcohol

TV time is inactive time. By allowing children so much inactive time in front of a screen we are putting them at higher risks for bad health habits they will carry with them as they age and which will seriously affect their physical, emotional, and social health.

Sorry Moms, I don’t mean this to be a guilt-trigger! I can tell I use the TV more at different times. This summer I had a brand new baby and five kids in my house under the age of 7. You can BET we watched some good movies and a little PBS, and frankly, I didn’t feel guilty about it. Now that they are in school, they watch *maybe* two hours a week, because our time is more limited. I think we need to use common sense and look for balance and moderation in individual circumstances.

As a parent you have to find what works for your family, but this article was a good reminder and wake up call for me to realize how affected children truly are by screen time and how it can have long lasting health implications.

Maybe my son was right after all…too much TV will turn his brain to mush.

Other interesting links:

Center for Screen Time Awareness:
http://www.tvturnoff.org/

American Academy of Pediatrics Media Violence policy:
http://aappolicy.aappublications.org/cgi/content/abstract/pediatrics;124/5/1495

Thursday, November 26, 2009

Happy Thanksgiving!!



Thanksgiving is one of my favorite holidays. I love it because it has all the joys of family, comfort foods, and love and gratitude like Christmas, but without all the stress of the presents!When we were growing up, we lived near cousins, aunts and uncles and one set of grandparents. I have such wonderful memories of our Thanksgivings together at our home. I can almost smell the turkey, Granny’s brussel sprouts, the rolls, and yams. We felt important, drinking Martinelli’s out of glass goblets and eating off beautiful plates and using mom’s real silverware. But most of all we felt loved, included, and we were well fed!Things are different now--my family is all spread across the country and we can’t all be together for Thanksgiving. But it’s ok, we have good memories of the past and so many things to be grateful for in the present.When we were younger we would sit and write things we were thankful for after our feast.

Now that I’m a mom, my list is quite different. But here are a few things I think I will add to my list this year:
I am thankful for:
* five little faces that greet me every morning (even if they aren’t smiling…)
* an amazing sense of hearing and listening. I can listen to two or even three totally different conversations coming at me at the same time.
* a gigantic dog that cleans those hard to reach places under the kitchen table.
* a husband that is a master at changing diapers and can take four kids on an outing every Sunday afternoon so I can rest.
* a van that functions and that is my home away from home.
* the toddler toilet in said van that has saved me thousands of trips into public restrooms with those five little faces.
* another year to enjoy Thanksgiving and take in all that it offers us.

Enjoy your day!

Wednesday, November 25, 2009

Tweens and Twilight

I was suprised this past weekend when my daughter attended a 'Twilight' themed birthday party for a 9 year old girl.  It was cleverly done, with Team Edward and Team Jacob scavenger hunts, pinata, and more - the parents of the girl seemed to keep it fun and age-appropriate.  Now, I have to admit I have never read the books or seen either of the movies, Twilight or New Moon, but I was under the impression that the content of both the books and movies was more appropriate for older teens and adults.  My 9 year old is bummed out because I haven't let her read the books, but after this party situation, now I'm curious as to what others think....at what age should kids be allowed to watch or read this particular series, or this genre in general?

Tuesday, November 24, 2009

Science Fun with Glow Sticks

Now that the candy is all eaten and Halloween is a distant memory, its time to go to the dollar store and pick up some discounted glow sticks for an easy science lesson! This easy experiment shows how energy and rates of reactions can change depending on temperature.

What you need:
Glow sticks
Cups for water
Hot water
Cold water

The Experiment:
Bend and snap the glow stick and shake it so that it starts to glow.  Fill one cup with hot water and one cup with cold water. Put the glow stick in the hot water for a few minutes and take a close look at it.  What happens?  Now take the glow stick out of the hot water and place it into the cold water, allow it to cool down for a few minutes and take notice what happens.

How it works:
The reaction between the different compounds in a light stick causes a major release of energy.  Atoms in the material are excited, causing electrons to rise to a higher energy level before returning to their normal levels.  As the electrons return to their normal levels, they release energy as light, a process called chemiluminescence.  A typical commercial glow stick contains a hydrogen peroxide solution, a phenyl oxalate ester, and a fluorescent dye - when you snap the glow stick, the chemicals are allowed to mix, react with each other and the atoms start emitting light.  Immersing the stick in different temperatures changes the rate of the reaction, or the rate at which the atoms excite.  Heating the light stick will speed up the reaction, causing it to glow brighter, while cooling it down slows the reaction.  We've had a few glow sticks in the freezer for that very reason, just trying to make it last!

To make your very own ultra-cool glow stick solution, check this out at PBS.org!  Happy glowing....

Thanksgiving is Just Around the Corner!



Thanksgiving is only two days away! With Thanksgiving practically here and Christmas rapidly approaching, we often times go into a very festive mode, or at least try to get into the festivities, even if we don't really feel like it! With a one year old in my little family now, building family traditions has been on my mind lately. Growing up, we always had the best holidays with family and friends. Now the big question is, how do I continue on with those traditions and holiday festivities for my own little family?

I'll start by decorating the house in a little Christmas decor and lighting Cinnamon and Christmas Tree scented candles or use my favorite Scentsy. I probably shouldn't admit this, but I'm still learning to cook, so food and baking items may not be plentiful, but I can always go buy a yummy pie somewhere. Music is also a great way to get into the holiday spirit. This year I'll add to my Christmas music collection by downloading seven classic Christmas songs for FREE from Amazon.com! Click here for your FREE Christmas tunes!


That is pretty much all I've got! I obviously need help!

What are your family traditions? How do you get in the holiday spirit and make it a special time for your family? We love hearing all of your comments!

Happy Holidays~

Monday, November 23, 2009

Where A Kid Can Be A …. Gambler?


Last weekend my 7 year old son was invited to a birthday party. Not just any birthday party--but a Chuck-e-Cheese’s birthday party!! Needless to say, he was thrilled and the first thing he said to me that morning was, “Mom, its my BIG day!” He counted the hours until noon.

With my husband home, I left the rest of the mob with him while just my son and I headed off to Chuck E.’s. I was excited to spend some one-on-one time with him and enjoy two hours of fun together. We arrived, greeted the birthday boy (who frankly couldn’t have cared less who was there, he was just basking in the over stimulation like every other kid). The mom of the birthday boy gave us a small, plastic cup filled with little shiny gold tokens, and after wolfing down an overpriced piece of greasy cheese pizza, we were off to the games!

For those of you who’ve never been to Chuck E. Cheese’s, this is how it works--you buy tokens (50 of them for $10--don't worry, they accept credit cards), stick your token into a slot and play a little game of pure chance for about 2 seconds. Then the machine spits out a few tickets, and when you are done, you go redeem the tickets for cheap ‘toys’ at the counter that is manned by goth looking teenagers with black fingernails and eye makeup and creative body piercings.

My son was in heaven, running from game to game, handing me the tickets that he collected to hold for safe keeping. I followed him around, mostly happy watching him enjoy his “big day.” As he was riding a little car that went up and down, I stood there watching ALL these children (and adults actually…) milling about this crowded, dim, smelly building. I watched them dash from game to game, plastic cups in hand filled with clanking tokens. I saw eyes a-lit with high hopes that the next time they shoved their token into the slot that big, neon flashing light would somehow, someway, actually stop on the word JACKPOT and a long, endless stream of tickets would come flowing from the machine. In that moment, I realized where I was. I was in a mini casino. A casino for kids. The home of future gamblers. A place where humans dump all their hard earned cash and wind up with greasy food, sugary drinks, and a few moments of thrill, only to have hopes dashed as their plastic toy that cost 160 tickets breaks before they even get into the parking lot. I realized that Chuck E. Cheese’s is nothing more than a casino for children.

“Where a kid can be a kid!” didn’t totally disappoint, however. My son and I had fun times using our tokens for things like air hockey, skeeball, and riding the little toddler rides. As we walked out into the beautiful sunshine, plastic bracelets and rubber frogs in hand, my son said, “This is the BEST day of my LIFE!” Not a bad outcome after two hours of … gambling.

Friday, November 20, 2009

Quick Guide to Cold and Flu Season

It’s that time of year again…and this year it seems to be hitting more people pretty hard. The good news is that many of the cold and flu symptoms are treated in the same way -- through comfort measures done at home.  Here are a few tips from our resident RN:

1.  Don’t panic over a fever.  Our body’s temperature rises to fight off infection, and fever itself is not necessarily bad. Carefully monitor your child’s fever. Only treat the fever to the point of increasing comfort for your child. Give Tylenol or Motrin (per doctor’s orders or on the medication labels), let your child soak in a lukewarm bath, and dress them in light clothing.  Call your doctor immediately if your child has a high fever (103 or higher), is listless, or cannot be roused from sleep.

2. Drink plenty of fluids.  Let children drink whatever fluids appeal to them. Water is best, but if they will drink watered down juice or milk that helps too. It is a myth that drinking milk will increase congestion. If it’s what your child will drink, it should be encouraged. Dehydration is one of the most common complications from flu in children, so encouraging fluids of any kind (popsicles, juices, milk, water, etc.) can help keep your child from getting worse.

3. Encourage rest. Your child will dictate how much activity they can tolerate when sick. Let them rest when they want to rest. If your child is having trouble sleeping, using a cool-mist humidifier in their room can help. Also, a warm bath before bed can give some comforting relief to the body aches.

4. Nutrition. Kids usually don’t have big appetites when they are sick, but try to encourage light, easy-to-digest foods such as broths and soups.

5.  Wash hands often and throw used tissues away immediately after use. Keep your children home from school if they are sick. Children can’t learn and be effective when they don’t feel well.

Remember that as your child’s body is fighting off illness, they are also building antibodies to an illness that may come their way again. It is inconvenient and uncomfortable for the week or so that the cold or flu lingers, but by keeping your child comfortable, rested, and well hydrated, the illness will pass and they will be back on track in no time!

**This is not intended as medical advice. They are merely suggestions for home care for common colds and flu. Always contact your child’s physician when you have questions or concerns about their health.**

Thursday, November 19, 2009

The Gift that Keeps on Giving

Google has once again given us, the Internet user, a great and free gift...SafeSearch. SafeSearch is a program that filters inappropriate material on the Internet so your children don't come across explicit material as they are surfing the web. Google does reiterate that no filtering system is 100% accurate, but SafeSearch should eliminate most inappropriate material.

Google has also incorporated four colored balls into the top right corner of the web page so that parents and/or teachers can tell if the filter is on from across the room.

According to the Google website, this is how you enable SafeSearch on your computer:
1. Visit the Google Preferences page.
2. In the SafeSearch Filtering section, choose the SafeSearch level you'd like to use:
Moderate filtering: This option excludes most explicit images from Google Images results but doesn't filter ordinary web search results. This is your default SafeSearch setting; you'll receive moderate filtering unless you change it.
Strict filtering: This applies SafeSearch filtering to both image and web search results.
No filtering: This option turns SafeSearch filtering off completely.
3. Click Save Preferences when you're done setting your preferences.

NOTE: You must click on Lock SafeSearch for the filtering to take effect.

The Official Google Blog
When you lock SafeSearch, two things will change. First, you'll need to enter your password to change the setting. Second, the Google search results page will be visibly different to indicate that SafeSearch is locked:


You can also adjust your settings on a per page basis by using the Advanced Search or Advanced Image Search pages.

Enjoy and happy surfing!

Wednesday, November 18, 2009

Money Matters for Kids

One of my children is obsessed with money. I mean, he’s really, really obsessed. At any given time, he is bound to have several dollars to his name…and for a 7 year old, that’s pretty good. He saves every penny meticulously, and is always asking me for a “money job” so he can earn even a nickel more.

I’m proud of his desire to save and earn, and even his ability to “let go” of it now and then and go shopping and throw a few dollars at a new Pokemon card. But, this obsession he has also led to many frustrations, disappointments and a child who is bummed because he is “poor.” It has led me to seek out advice from experts on helping our children handle money, and here is what I have learned from my experience, at least with our 7 year old.


1. Teach children at an early age what things cost. The grocery store is a great place to point out price tags on shelves. The sooner children can associate a number with being the price for something, the sooner they will understand the value of their money.

2. Teach them to save up for something specific. Let them choose something reasonable (like one dollar store item) and set a date for when that shopping trip will be. Before that day arrives, let your child earn coins by doing jobs outside of their normal routine. Of course this forces you to suffer through the aisles of the dollar store as your child deliberates over which piece of junk to come home with, but the thrill they get from buying something of their very own is worth it.

3. Be realistic with money amounts, especially with young children. Giving them coins and occasionally a one dollar bills is sufficient to satisfy their desire for money and teach them key concepts of counting and saving. Our tooth fairy usually gives 50-75 cents, although once in a hotel room all I had was a dollar bill and a credit card--I opted to give the dollar bill. So, our tooth fairy had to up her rates for lost teeth after that. But a handful of coins is a bigger deal to most kids than a one dollar bill anyway.

4. Teach them to keep it in a safe place. As your child realized the value of the coins or bills he or she has, they will hopefully learn the importance of keeping it in a safe place. I have five children under the age of 8, so you can imagine if there is a coin on the floor somewhere, *everyone* is going to claim it. My kids have had to learn quickly that if you treasure something (like you money!) keep it in a wallet or purse or even a zip lock baggie and keep it in a safe spot.

5. Teach your kids about bank accounts and credit cards and all that other adult stuff that they hear about but don’t really experience first hand. My kids think the bank is a money tree and I go reap my fruit whenever I‘m hungry for it. They need to learn where the money is coming from, why we work so hard for it, and where it all gets distributed. Teach them about credit cards and that everything has a price and if you don’t have the money for it, you shouldn’t buy it, even though anything seems possible with the swipe of the plastic card.

Let your kids enjoy the process of money. Learning some of these key points are so elementary but they will lay a foundation for smart and responsible money choices as they get older.


Websites with tips on teaching children about money:

http://www.moneyinstructor.com/parents.asp

http://life.familyeducation.com/money-and-kids/personal-finance/34481.html

http://www.pbs.org/wnet/moneyshow/makeover/article6.html

Monday, November 16, 2009

Teaching Children to be Thankful


According to www.dictionary.com, the word thankful has two meanings.

1. Aware and appreciative of a benefit; grateful.

2. Expressive of gratitude: a thankful smile.

Are your kids thankful? In this holiday season of giving thanks, why not sit down with your children and have each person write down five things that they are thankful for? This is an activity that the whole family can do together. Remember, the more simple you can make it the better. You can even create a "Thankful Binder" and update the binder from year to year with the present year gratitude's. Younger children will enjoy coloring and creating their own thankful pages. Each year will bring a new awareness of things to be happy about as you sit with your family and enjoy reading the pages of gratitude.

This is a fun family tradition that doesn't cost a lot of money, but will leave a lasting impression on you and your children.

Sunday, November 15, 2009

American Education Week

The National Education Association (NEA) celebrates American Education Week from November 15 – 21st by promoting quality public education for all children from kindergarten through college as a basic right and the need for communities to stay involved to help public schools excel. NEA President Dennis Van Roekel recently stated that “a great public school for every student starts with a great teacher.” How many of us, 10, 20, even 50+ years after attending public school recall with fondness some of our favorite teachers?

The dedicated teachers who make significant impacts on the lives of our youth, who shape interests and future career choices, who encourage our children to reach their true potentials, are doing one of the hardest jobs in America these days. Crime, disrespect, lack of support, and low salaries in the public school system are just a few of the reasons that it is hard to recruit the best and brightest to the profession of teaching. Despite these challenges, we are lucky that there are people like Mrs. Ono, Mrs. Davis, and countless others who are giving 110% to their students every day in classrooms across America to give our kids what they deserve – a solid education that will allow them to grow, prosper, and achieve in the 21st century.

The NEA website has a lot of valuable information, including user rated lesson plans for math, geography, history, English and much more, as well as ideas for classroom management. This is a great resource for parents and teachers alike.

Who was your favorite public school teacher growing up, and why? How can we as parents help public school teachers to succeed?

Friday, November 13, 2009

Okay kids, time for your WORKOUT!


When most of us adults think of a “workout” we think of the gym, or a long 5 mile run, or even weight lifting. But for kids, a workout does not need to be structured or formal--in fact the best way to describe a childhood “workout” is just being ACTIVE and moving their bodies.

Let’s face it, our society doesn’t make it easy to have fit kids. Fast food surrounds us, soda is readily available everywhere, our schools don’t offer much time in the way of Physical Education, and when they are in school, they are sitting at desks much of the day.

There are several benefits to having active kids. Children who are physically active will:
* have stronger bones and muscles
* have a lower body fat percentage
* decrease risk of obesity as children and in the future
* decrease risk of health problems such as diabetes, high blood pressure and high cholesterol
* have a better attitude and confidence in their abilities to cope with physical, emotional, and social stresses
* start good habits for healthy lifestyles now which will stay with them as they grow

With school, music lessons, homework, etc, it is sometimes hard to find structured time for your kids to exercise. The truth is, they don’t need much, but the key is to incorporate the activity into your normal day. Toddlers and preschoolers need about 1.5-2 hours of activity a day. School age children need at least one hour. Here are some ideas to keeping your kids active and healthy--

1. Enroll them in classes or organized sports that they enjoy. Many community recreation centers offer cheap, or sometimes even free classes for children. Most communities have several leagues throughout the year that are easy to get involved in.
2. Use your yard or sidewalk!! Run around with your kids chasing a ball, throwing a Frisbee or football, or set up a mock game of soccer. It is amazing how much exercise children get when they are out “just playing”.
3. Take your kids swimming at a local rec. center pool. Swimming (or enrolling in swim lessons) not only teaches them a valuable safety skill, but it is an excellent cardiovascular workout and kids have fun in water.
4. One those cold winter days, use your stairs!! We play many stair games in our house which require the kids to go up and down several times. You have to get creative, but the stairs are a great ‘prop’ when it comes to games that get your kids active. (you should see how much they sweat going up and down those stairs!)
5. For kids who aren’t “athletic” find other activities they may enjoy--dance, gymnastics, take a walk to collect leaves, go on a nature hike, go on a bike ride, or skip down to the mailbox everyday to get the mail.

The human body is meant to move and be active! Our bodies are healthier, our minds clearer and our hearts are happier when we exercise and stay physically active--our children are the same! They need the physical activity just as much, if not more than adults do. Remember, it doesn’t have to be a structured event or a solid hour of straight activity--keep it fun and do little things throughout the day to promote physical activity.

So turn off your TV this afternoon and GO PLAY!!!

Thursday, November 12, 2009

Turkey's Teaching



Here are a few more creative ways to integrate learning into the Thanksgiving holiday. These ideas are from the Education World website.

Language Arts (vocabulary development). Help children learn the meanings of turkey-related words: wattle, tom, hen, poult (a young turkey). Make up "turkey rhymes" using those words.

Nutrition/Cooking. Many people eat turkey leftovers. Ask children to list as many ways as they can think of to use turkey the day after. (turkey sandwiches, soup, salad, casserole, potpie)

Arts/Crafts. Make turkeys for holiday centerpieces, gifts, or greeting cards.

Paper bag turkeys. Stuff a brown paper lunch bag with crumpled newspaper. Tightly tie the open end of the bag, creating a neck for the turkey. Attach a paper turkey head. Tape or glue colored feathers to the flat end of the bag.

Circle turkeys. Attach a large, brown paper circle to the center of a bulletin board or wall. Add a red turkey head and turkey legs cut from paper. Children can cut out feathers from colored paper. Attach all feathers to the turkey. (Some children might want to write "turkey facts" on the feathers.)

Hand turkeys. Children can trace their hands on paper. (Younger children can trace each other's hands if necessary.) The hand will form the turkey's body; the thumb the turkey's head; and the spread fingers, the turkey's feathers. Children can add feet and color. They can also make a whole bunch of turkeys this way!

Coloring turkeys. Print out a "Thanksgiving Turkey" coloring picture for children to color.

Turkey Games. Play one of these turkey games with your children.

Play "Pin the Feathers on the Turkey."
Encourage children to make up their own turkey games or make up turkey names for familiar games. (How about Duck, Duck, Turkey? Ring around the Turkey? Dodge Turkey?)

www.education-world.com/a_lesson/lesson036.shtml

Wednesday, November 11, 2009

Having a Good Back-Up System Means Going the Extra Mile

Safety issues concerning children who are backed over by cars while playing in driveways has become a national (and avoidable) tragedy. It is estimated by the safety group Kids and Cars that two children per week suffer injury and death from this hazard (KidsAndCars.org). Sadly, over 70 percent of these injuries and deaths involve a driver who is a direct relative of the child. Often, those who love them the most are responsible for the tragedy.

What can be done?

Car manufacturers offer new and innovative tools to help avoid such tragedies such as special backing up devices, mirrors and special safety lenses which are designed to reduce the blind spots directly behind your vehicle. These safety tools allow you to see children, pets, toys and other obstructions which the drivers of most vehicles would otherwise miss.

Backup accidents are avoidable with a little help from this technology but the absolute best solution to this ever-increasing problem is for drivers to make a habit of walking around their vehicles before backing up to make certain there are no obstacles. We live in a hurry-up world which is filled with many distractions and it is behind the wheel of a vehicle where parents can be the most distracted. Let’s slow down before getting behind the wheel of a car and make that very important trip around the outside of our cars to insure the safety and security of our children. We make certain that they “buckle-up” once inside the car, so let’s “go the extra mile” and keep them safe when they aren’t in their safety belts.

Monday, November 9, 2009

Maclaren Stroller Recall Due to Hinge Danger: 1 Million Strollers Recalled - ABC News


Maclaren has announced a stroller recall due to children's fingertips getting amputated by the hinge.

Visit the following website to learn more:
Maclaren Stroller Recall Due to Hinge Danger: 1 Million Strollers Recalled - ABC News

The company said to stop using the strollers and call Maclaren toll-free at (877) 688-2326. Their website, www.maclarenbaby.com, is currently down due to scheduled maintenance.

Saturday, November 7, 2009

Pumpkin-Seed Brittle



This is a great recipe from http://www.marthastewart.com/ with pumpkin seeds as the main ingredient.

Ingredients

Serves 4

* 1/4 cup (1/2 stick) unsalted butter, plus more for baking sheet
* 1/2 cup packed light-brown sugar
* 1/4 cup honey
* 1 cup fresh pumpkin seeds, rinsed well, dried, and toasted

Directions

1. Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Butter an 11-by-17- inch rimmed baking sheet; set aside.
2. Melt butter in a small saucepan over medium heat. Stir in sugar and honey. Bring to a boil. Cook, without stirring, until mixture is medium amber and a candy thermometer registers 280 degrees. about 6 minutes. Stir in pumpkin seeds. Cook until mixture reaches 300 degrees. about 2 minutes. Pour onto prepared baking sheet. Let cool completely. Break into pieces.

From Martha Stewart Living, October 2006

Awesome Website Alert



Learning about science is not always on the top of kids to do lists, but thanks to the Internet, there are a lot of really cool and educational websites out there that actually make science fun and entertaining. The website learn.genetics.utah.edu has been around for over a year, but in late October the websites link showed up on a popular social networking site and quickly became one of the top 10 most visited sites on the Internet. At one point it was getting 270 hits per second, which is pretty amazing for an Internet site.

For a really cool look into the actual size of a carbon atom, visit learn.genetics.utah.edu/content/begin/cells/scale/index.html. A picture of a coffee bean, a grain of rice, and a few other small items will show up. Use your mouse and scroll along the scroll bar below the picture to zoom in and see how small some of these cells really are and get ready to be amazed!

CHI for ME!


I got an awesome hair straightener for Christmas this year called a CHI! It is great and gets so hot that it instantly straightens curly hair and tames frizz. The process of straightening hair can be time consuming, but because of how fast the CHI heats up and how hot it gets, it makes getting sleek, straight, strands fast and actually easy! My sister has really long thick hair also and she has five kids so she doesn't have a lot of time to spend on styling her hair. She tried it and instantly went online and bought one for herself.


They normally run around $100 but you can find them on Amazon.com for around $60. For fast, cute hair for a busy mom, it's a great buy.

Friday, November 6, 2009

My Gym Offers Tips for National Kids Goal Setting Week

NASHVILLE, Tenn.--(BUSINESS WIRE)--National Kids Goal Setting Week, which takes place November 9th – 14th, is designed to help adults understand children's talents and to equip them to lead a life full of meaning and direction. Communities nationwide use the campaign to promote goal setting in schools, organizations and other groups.

"Learning how to set and achieve goals doesn't just teach a child to finish something they start," said Monique Vranesh, founding partner of My Gym Enterprises. "It teaches them responsibility, it boosts their self-esteem, and it makes them a better person overall."

Vranesh offers the following tips to help parents show their children how to set goals:

•Start small. Setting little goals for your children, such as teaching a younger child to brush his or her teeth when first waking up in the morning, having your teenager complete his or her chores by a certain time of day, or even teaching your children to eat all of their food before dessert time can lead to setting bigger goals.
•Get them to think smart. Teaching your children to make goals about their education is a starting point for them to make similar goals as they get older and head to college. And, later they will use these skills when establishing their careers. Here is a suggestion: Encourage your child to choose a book to read and have them set a goal of reading one book every two months, along with their schoolwork. Of course, the time period can be changed based on their schoolwork volume. The important thing is to just set a goal.
•Lead by example. Your child will be more likely to do something if they see their parents doing it. Therefore, make a goal for yourself and tell your child about it. For example, incorporate more exercise in your life, and bring your child along with you.

My Gym provides programs for children to better their physical health, but the programs also help children build self-esteem and confidence that carry over into all aspects of a child's life, Vranesh said. For more information, or to book a birthday party or free trial class, visit www.mygym.com

SSA Public Relations
Steve Syatt, 818-907-5929
ssyatt@ssapr.com



Copyright Business Wire 2009

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Thursday, November 5, 2009

Encouraging Gifted Children

My kids attend public elementary school in a state that just cut the number of instructional days by 17 per school year in order to help balance the budget. Unfortunately, education is an easy target when it comes to cutting costs, which are usually caused by overpaid administrators. Children are clearly being short changed in public schools across America, and quite often the best and brightest students are not being challenged in the classroom which leads to boredom, apathy, and a feeling among students of ‘why bother.’ The 2004 publication of A Nation Deceived: How Schools Hold Back America’s Brightest Students was seen as a watershed event in the national debate about acceleration and gifted students. This two part publication highlights the disparity between the scholarly research on acceleration and the educational policies and practices that often run contrary to the research.

How can we help our kids excel academically when they are not encouraged to do so at school? Skipping a grade level is not always an option, and while it might alleviate boredom and foster advanced academics, it has associated social and developmental concerns. Teachers who are allowed to offer differentiated instruction where they can adapt lesson plans to accommodate different ability levels are far and few between.
The Institute for Research and Policy on Acceleration has an excellent Questions and Answers forum, a few of which are highlighted here:

Should I accelerate my child? 

Research indicates that acceleration is a social and academic success story; in many cases, it is the right intervention for students whose needs are not met in age-grouped classrooms.
The more relevant question might be "what form of acceleration is most appropriate for my child?" For many people, acceleration is synonymous with grade skipping, although grade skipping is just one form of acceleration. Early entrance to kindergarten or 1st grade, dual enrollment in high school and college, and subject matter acceleration are different forms of acceleration that may work for some students.

Choosing an accelerative intervention requires careful consideration of many factors, and the type of acceleration that works well with one child may not work well with another. The support of family and friends, the student’s level of academic and social-emotional development, the student’s age and physical development, and the beliefs of local school personnel are all factors to consider. For example, students who skip grades need emotional maturity as well as academic ability in order to succeed. With single-subject acceleration, however, the more important criterion is academic ability, and social-emotional maturity may be less of a concern.

Will my accelerated child fit in socially and have friends? 

Parents and caregivers are deeply concerned about their child’s social and emotional health and want to ensure that their child has membership in a peer group. Many intellectually advanced children have experienced the social isolation that comes not from having a true intellectual peer in the same grade. Acceleration can benefit some children socially because it allows them to socialize with older peers who are more likely to share interests and are closer to the intellectual level of the accelerated child. For some children, acceleration may finally provide the opportunity to make a friend. The social fit of the child is a larger issue for grade skipping than for forms of acceleration that keep the child in the grade-level classroom (such as subject matter acceleration).

How important are the age and school grade of siblings when considering acceleration? 

An important rule of thumb in acceleration is that a student not be skipped into the same grade as an older sibling. Such a move will introduce the accelerated child into the social and academic territory of the older sibling. Even if a school offers more than one class at the given grade level or if the accelerated student could be moved to another school, acceleration into the same grade as an older sibling is not recommended.
Students who are not accelerated due to a sibling’s age or grade still need to be challenged, however. Alternative methods for increasing their academic challenge must be identified and implemented. One method that can be used is to pair the student with a mentor who works professionally in a field that is related to the student’s academic interest areas. Other ways to increase challenge can be found in books such as Re-Forming Gifted Education: Matching the Program to the Child (Rogers, 2002) and include participation in regional or national competitions based upon individual or group projects, through programs such as Destination Imagination™, Knowledgemaster, Invention Convention™, Math Olympiad, and Future Problem Solving. The key is to find ways to provide meaning, usefulness, and structure, and thereby motivation, to a student’s extended learning.

Are there support groups for parents and children who participate in various forms of acceleration? 

There are many websites that deal with issues of gifted children. A few popular sites developed by parents are:

http://www.gtworld.org
http://www.tagfam.org/
http://www.hoagiesgifted.org/


These sites provide listserv and other resources for a variety of issues and concerns common to gifted children and their families. The Hoagies’ site has a section dedicated to personal stories and research on acceleration.

What are some of your solutions to helping your gifted child succeed?

Thanksgiving Websites to be Thankful For


Picture this…a nice Thanksgiving morning, perfectly brisk out but not too cold, the sun is shining and a turkey is in the oven. Mom is in the kitchen trying to make the stuffing, cranberry sauce, and all the other yummy side dishes that go along with the turkey. Kids are busily running around her, excited for the festivities to begin and cousins to arrive. They scurry around the kitchen asking for a snack, whining that brother just took sister’s toy, crying because someone needs a nap…you get the idea.

As Thanksgiving approaches and kids are out of school for a few days, it’s a good idea to be prepared with activities for them to be busily working on while you get your Thanksgiving preparations taken care of.

Check out www.primarygames.com/holidays/thanksgiving/thanksgiving.htm and dltk-holidays.com/thanksgiving/index.html. These are great websites that offer holiday themed coloring pages and games which you can print out for your little ones. You can also print out place cards which your child can decorate and place on the table for your holiday guests. The best part is, it’s all free!

Wednesday, November 4, 2009

Making money by selling your Halloween candy?


This might sound counter intuitive. Your child spends weeks, sometimes even months, creating a costume and getting together with friends to go trick or treating, then turns around and sells the candy? According to Fox28 in Indiana, this is exactly what some kids are doing and what dentists are encouraging them to do.

In Madison, Indiana, dentists are paying children to bring their candy into the dental office and are actually paying $1 per pound of candy. As I was thinking about this concept, I thought it was interesting and definitely thought provoking. To me, this takes all the fun out of Halloween. This poor child goes trick or treating, then is tempted by a big bag of candy that was so innocently asked for at a strangers door, only to be rushed to the dentist office the next day. Not only do kids not like going to the dentist’s office, but then to top it off, they have to give the dentist their candy!

Then I thought about how this might be a good parenting strategy. It would definitely be an entrepreneurial learning experience for the child to go out, collect a free product, in this case candy, then get paid real cash for it! Further life lessons could be taught to the child by stashing that money away in a savings account or the child could even buy a game that the whole family could play and enjoy together. I am so glad that I was taught how to be a good business woman and to save money and use it wisely. This is a hard concept to teach and the best way to do it is by example.

This idea actually has quite a few good points. The kids miss out on all those cavities they most certainly would have developed, and mom and dad get to teach good financial skills in the process.

Although sometimes it's fun to just let kids be kids and eat a whole bunch of candy one night out of the year!

http://www.fox28.com/Global/story.asp?S=11439774

Tuesday, November 3, 2009

Dealing with Disappointment - When Life Gives You Lemon Sorbet...

I took my kids out for a rare afterschool treat at Baskin Robbins ice cream shop recently.  They could choose one scoop of any flavor they wanted, and were quite thrilled with all the yummy options.  My 5 year old immediately knew that she wanted chocolate chip cookie dough, but my 9 year old was hemming and hawing, overwhelmed with the choices and clearly taking her decision making seriously.  After settling on mint chip, her favorite, I was surprised when she suddenly asked the server for a taste of the lemon sorbet, and even more suprised when after tasting it, she asked for lemon sorbet as her single scoop.   As we sat down to enjoy our ice cream, it wasn't long before Zoe's enthusiasm for the tart treat quickly dissipated, and disappointment became the flavor du jour.  Tears of frustration streamed down her cheeks as she begged for another scoop, but instead of giving in I decided it was a good opportunity to try and teach her about how to cope with her disappointment. 

Over a few shared spoonfuls, we talked about how to be happy with what we have even if it isn't what we expected.  Some tips to helping your children manage their feelings of frustration and sadness are:
  • Teach them to have realistic expectations
  • Emphasize the importance of having a positive attitude in the face of disappointing circumstances
  • Don't shelter kids from their mistakes or inadequacies
  • Calmly talk them through disappointing experiences
 Elizabeth Crary's book "Dealing with Disappointment: Helping Kids Cope when Things Don't Go Their Way" gives additional practical, positive approaches with exercises and self calming tools and techniques to help your children understand and successfully manage the ups and downs in life.

While our ice cream outing turned sour initially, we were able to walk away with a better understanding of how to approach decision making and disappointment, and hopefully next time instead of tears we will have chocolate. 

Bake This - Chocolate Chip Pumpkin Bread



As Fall gives way to chilly Winter temperatures, it's not too late to fill your kitchen with the savory and spicy aromas of pumpkin, cinnamon and cloves. Warm the hearts and tummies of your appreciative family and friends with this delicious Pumpkin Chocolate Chip Bread!

3 1/4 cups all purpose flour
2 teaspoons baking soda
1 1/2 teaspoons ground nutmeg
2 cups solid pack pumpkin puree
1 cup vegetable oil
1 cup chocolate chips
1 1/2 teaspoons salt
1 1/2 teaspoons cinnamon
3 cups white sugar
2/3 cup water
4 eggs

Prep Work:
Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Grease and flour pans. You can pour this batter into three 7x3-in. pans or one large 9x5-in. pan.

Measure flour, sugar, baking soda, salt, and spices into a large bowl. Stir to combine. Add pumpkin, water, vegetable oil, eggs, and chocolate chips. Beat until well combined. Pour batter into prepared pans.

Bake for about 1 hour.

Monday, November 2, 2009

Baby Einstein Videos - Disney Offers Refunds

While the bright colors and moving objects set to catchy, classical music might be marketing genuis, the Disney executives are admitting that watching the Baby Einstein video series aren't going to make your baby any smarter than the next kid on the block.  In fact, they are offering refunds up to $15.99 for each DVD purchased between June 5, 2004 and September 5, 2009.  The offer, which doesn't require a receipt, is good for up to 4 DVDs until March 10, according to an October 23, 2009 New York Times article.



Many parents view the videos as beneficial for their babies, or at the very least not harmful even though the American Academy of Pediatrics recommends no screen time at all for children under the age of 2.  One group, the Campaign for a Commercial-free Childhood, has been lobbying for marketing restrictions, saying that companies such as Disney ought to acknowledge that their products are not 'educational', even suggesting that Disney be 'held accountable' and that parents should be owed compensation for misleading advertising. 

I think parents deserve more credit in this regard - while we are ultimately responsible for what our young children are exposed to in terms of media, I doubt that most consumers actually think that having their babies watch a daily dose of Baby Einstein videos will improve their IQs drastically.  If anything, it just made us all feel dumb for not coming up with the idea to market a video of colorful toys set to music for $15.99 each!  What do you think - have Baby Einstein videos harmed or helped your child, or are they just a great way to get some vacuuming done while baby is engaged for a few minutes?
-CEC

Sunday, November 1, 2009

Raising Happy, Healthy Kids: Past, Present, and Future

The ideas and strategies presented on this blog are a compilation of 3 generations of raising "successful" kids: our parent's - now grandparents - perspectives, our own successes and failures as parents, and the experiences that our kids are currently going through. We understand that everyone has a different definition of success - for us, success is defined by the overall happiness and health of our kids as they grow through all the exciting stages from infants teenagers. This blog will feature daily articles and advice focused on fostering academic success, boosting social and emotional development, health and fitness information for kids, and a variety of fun ideas and tips for raising happy, healthy, well rounded children. 

For a bit of background about our family, our mom raised four kids who are now well-adjusted, independent, successful adults. The oldest, Matt, went to a top rated medical school and is an emergency room doctor in the Midwest and enjoys riding dirt bikes, reading, and studying the stock market. In addition to a PhD in Cell and Molecular Biology, Cara has three girls ages 9, 5, and 2, and juggles a busy work schedule with parenting and her hobbies which include surfing and ocean swimming. Megan, who graduated with a degree in nursing, has 7 year old triplets, a 4 year old, and a 6 month old to balance between competing in triathlons and fostering her creative side. Lindsay, the youngest, has had a successful career in social work and operational consulting while enjoying her 1 year old daughter and hiking with her husband.

We were all raised with a strong commitment to education and family, and are here to share our parenting perspectives with you while experimenting with them on our own kids!  We don't claim to have any of the true answers to success, but we hope you will join for this exciting adventure.....stay tuned for more to come.  Please comment and let us know if you have any questions or topics you would like to see covered.